all my FRIEND guys tell me how hot i am all the time but none of them will ask ME out they always end up datin like my best friends!!! wat can i do bout it???
2006-07-20 13:13:43 · 28 answers · asked by breezy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh god, talk about immaturity. Come on guys, is it really that hard for a guy to give some intelligent advice. Yes you, I am talking about the ones who answered before me.
Listen Breezy, let me help you with a bit of male psychology. If they are telling you that you are hot, then they are actually scared to ask you out because of this fear of rejection. The guys think that maybe you think that they are not good enough for you.
If you really like one of them, or you just want to go out with one of them, then I highly suggest that you take the first step. Don't be just blunt and in their face but make sure to let him know that you like him and you really want him to ask you out. For example, next time when you see him, just give him a friendly kiss on the cheek or something.
Trust me on this! A gesture like this will be a loud and clear signal. If he still doesn't get it, he is just too dumb. Forget him.
2006-07-20 13:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by The Prince 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They may not ask you out because they consider you a friend. If you want you can either ask one of them out to see how interested he is in you, or try to meet some guys outside your current circle of friends.
Also, remember, just because you may look "hot" doesn't mean that every person in the world will ask you out. There is more to a person than just looks . . .
2006-07-20 13:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They see you as a friend and there is nothing wrong with that. It means you are a cool girl, but trust I get it you want some attention from the boys! Most important don't change who you are, but there is nothing wrong with showing the "goods"and batting your lashes. Not in that cheesy desperate way but allow them to see that you are not just one of the guys. Go to a movie with your prospective beau and sit closer, wear your jeans a little tighter. You know what you got WORK IT!
2006-07-20 13:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by toobadfaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop making them think your too much for them by been so consieded. Can't you see most guys wont ask a girl out if he thinks she's too hot. We have dignity and we dont want to get rejected, so we dont take the chance of asking out. Now if she acts normal as in simple and ordinary, even if she's is hot we'll ask her out, cause we know she is too nice to say no and break your feelings.
2006-07-20 13:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by stud989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you let them know you think there Hot and a Date wouldnt be the end of your friendship. You can be direct without worrying about damaging a good friendship with a nad attempt at relationship.
2006-07-20 14:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by abulafia1973 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off--What is your best friends doing that you are not.
Second--The Guys could be telling you in a kind, but silent manner to get you to feel good about yourself and go look elsewhere.
Have you tried Playing with your hair in front of the guys yet?
2006-07-20 13:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are usually afraid or uptight about asking out really pretty girls. they have a fear of rejection. So why don't you make the first move. There is no reason a girl can't ask a guy out.
2006-07-20 13:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They look at you as a dear friend and/or a sister. They is great to have friends that are guys, so don't change that. They must really respect you. Find a guy outside your circle!!
2006-07-20 13:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy confuse everyone so u have to live with it. maybe they would rather have u as a friend and thats a good thing realy. but tell them u want to hook up with someone so maybe they can introduce u to other guys that could work.
2006-07-20 13:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them out
2006-07-20 13:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋