what do you do when your ex girlfriend keeps calling u on the phone crying?

Question

my boyfriends ex keeps on calling him on the phone crying. He wants he to stop but she wont leave him alone what should he do?

Hes tried not answering the phone but she keeps on calling and leaving messages

i told her to leave him alone but it still didnt work..she still calls him

she says she still loves him...

Answer 1

Tell her that only God deserves that type of reverence. Kindly tell her to get help. Get caller ID, don't answer her calls, and set the answering machine to cut-off after 20 seconds. Get a restraining order if necessary.

Or, what will you want him to tell you when you cry after he dumps you?

Answer 2

He should say this firmly."I will no longer ansswer your phone calls, please reapect that" He only needs to tell her this once. Then if he has called ID he doesn't pick up the phone when she calls and he will delete messages left on the phone. Then he needs to be consistant . If he answers once in a while she will keep calling until she gets that once in a while answer.
I know people who change phone numbers or put a block on a caller. It would be futile for him or you to argue with her or get any kind of revenge. That just stirs up anger from her and she will continue to fight.
Geesh, what guy wants a woman like that. She needs to grow up and get over it.

If you guys want any kind of revenge......the best revenge is to ignore her and to BE HAPPY. Anything else buys in to her crazyness.

Answer 3

U can have the number changed that way she can't call. If u two really really wanted her to stop u can stop her.

U can also make her feel bad when she calls by saying things like "u are a sad person" "Laugh at her" "tape her and then play it back to friends she knows that way they can tell her they heard her over a tape crying and begging him to come back to him" if she hears this and others telling about her it will embarrass her to the point of her stopping.

Answer 4

change the phone number. u could also introduce her to a new guy so she can get over him. leaving the country for a while could work too. cause when he stops anwsering the phone she will get the message. but he won't feel gulty cause he was out of the country on vaction and not just screening her calls.

Answer 5

My wager is the alcohol made her call. after I used to drink heavily it truly is what alcohol made me do. I ought to assert that i imagine even as it took away any inhibitions it also tended to depress me and reason me to seem for convenience from acquaintances of the fairer sex. i'm no longer precisely confident why this occurs. you've heard men say "enable's get inebriated and talk to up some women" properly that seems to carry actual for women besides. i'm questioning that her ingesting were given between you 2 interior the previous and that it my were the underlying reason you broke up. She might want to understand this and experience that she made a mistake. question is how does she experience about you even as she's sober. it truly is what concerns.

Answer 6

He should confront her and tell her that it is rediculous to call someone and cry like this, also suggest maybe that she should go to counseling or something. Let her open up to him but let u or him give her advice, if she still doesn't leave him alone, you may be advised to call the police and file a complaint.

Answer 7

He can block her number, if she keeps calling after that from different numbers inform her that is she calls once more you'll be contacting the telephone company and tell them she is making harassing phone calls.

If he doesn't want to go through that he could change his number and get an unlisted one.

Answer 8

He should stop answering and block the number. If he was concerned, he should call her mother or best friend and let them know whats been going on and that she needs some extra help from them at the least.

Answer 9

He needs to tell her that he is going to put a warrant on her if she keeps calling. Besides, he needs to tell her nicely that there are nothing left between them and the relationship is over and she needs to move on and find someone who will accept her and love her back and she needs to chill out and stop wasting his time becasue there will never be anything between them ever again and if she wants friendly conversations then that's okay.

Answer 10

well, the best thing is for him to tell her that she's going to be fine. when someone does that, they're afraid of being on their own and not being loved. She feels that letting him go will leave her all alone. Tell him to try and encourage her to think about the fact that she will be okay. In other words, the biggest fears in the world are of people who are afraid that they won't be okay. so she just needs the confidence in herself to be okay on her own, without past attachements to her ex.