Ho do you get Gay men to leave you alone?? All they do is keep iirritating me. They won't leave me alone.. I want them to stop but they won't.. I am at work all the time when this happens.. I told me boss, but he is gay too.. They keep on harassing me all the time.. I found out from another gay co-worker that they were flirting with me.. I am so annoyed by them I feel like I want to physically cause them pain.. and not in a sexual way. I want to take the nearest object and beat the living **** out of them.. They keep on screwing up my relations with the opposite sex.. By saying stupid stuff to me in front of women I like.. I hate them and want to kill some of them.. I try to be mean and rude.. but it doesn't work.. I have tried to ignore them, but that doesn't work. I want to become a supervisor but I can't as long as I can't find a way to get along with them. I have told them I have a girl friend but that didn't work.. what can I do to stop the sexual harassment before I hurt someone
2006-07-20 13:05:18 · 17 answers · asked by millernlite1979p 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Interesting that I just read your question after I read a news article about reverse discrimination & harassment in Provincetown - against straight people by gay people.
Sexual harassment really knows no gender or sexual orientation, so first I would urge you to set aside that prejudice. I understand how frustrating it can be to work in a hostile workplace environment, however, and if what you're saying is true, then their behavior is unconscionable.
I would not recommend that you take out your anger by exacting revenge or physical attacks, though, because that will find you in more trouble than you really need at this point.
My best advice is for you to consult a lawyer immediately. In the meantime, document everything that has happened, and try to keep your cool.
Best of luck to you.
(Btw, I'm a lesbian.)
2006-07-20 13:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by oaksterdamhippiechick 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I do worry about what straight men are thinking about gay men, I guess it has changed over the years. If your refering to why straight men will not have sex with you, then it is biological. Some people do not like gay men or gay women, that is their problem. Of course some straight men are sexy and yes the are afraid also that they will get bummed by another guy, so there is fear there and gender roles also may be changed which their small minds can not get their head around. Some straight men do not aknowledge their feelings towards men either emotionally or physically, gay men have trouble with that also.
2016-03-27 01:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are messing with you because they know that it irritates you. Don't let them KNOW that they irritate you and this will eventually stop. Killing someone or hurting someone will only make matters worse. You will hurt someone that does not deserve it, and meanwhile you will end up in prison for hurting someone. If you hate gay's now, going to prison for the rest of your life and becoming someone's boy toy will not help matters. My step-mom is the assistant warden at a max. security prison, and believe me you don't want to experience what goes on in prison. If you are having this much conflict at work, find a different job before you do something that will screw up the rest of your life (no pun intended) good luck.
2006-07-20 15:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by perioligament 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all violence won't solve anything, only cause more trouble for you< the best advice to do is go to your Human resource department and tell them what is going on, and you have asked them to stop but to no avail and you immediate boss is no help! and you want to file a sexual harassment against those people! and I would to tell your fellow co-workers that if they don't stop you have no other choice except to file a law suit against them, for sexual harassment!! But I'm hoping your human resources department will step in and take the apposite action for you, after all that is there Job best of luck to you Good luck
KEEP ON YAHOOING!!
~~~SPARKY~~~
2006-07-20 13:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another job. that's the best I can say. the same thing happens to me in school. I beat the crap out of them but they still continue. I've read that gay men like str8 men better. They don't care if str8 men are homophobic. They want the world to know that there are queer and are happy about it, and how perverted they are.
2006-07-20 13:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by zombiepirate_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they are playing you like a violin with their teasing and flirting--but just watch how fast that stops, when your boss hears the word "lawsuit." And if even one person keeps doing it, get a good lawyer and make some $$$ in court!
2006-07-20 13:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I found out from another gay co-worker that they were flirting with me.."
What? You didnt notice this yourself?
Looking at your picture - you are the most beautiful man on earth - I bet even dogs follow you home and try to dry hump your leg. YOU ARE SO HOT!!!!
Emm - I'm being sarcastic - You're ugly and appear to have the personality of a piece of garbage - Why anyone is flirting with you is a mystery to me - Here's hoping you get fired!
Have a sad life - you deserve it :)
2006-07-20 13:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by trouble_gum 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should just find another job if they irritate you so much to the point of wanting to kill them, you of course need therapy, and perhaps medication for this huge amount of frustration, upon you.
2006-07-20 14:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chill, don't let it phase you.Beating them up isn't the best way to handle things.They probably don't mean anything by it.
You could just calmy say that you don't appreciate them "harassing" you.
2006-07-20 13:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lycrester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your human resources manager and file a sexual harrasment complaint.
2006-07-20 13:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by amulek1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋