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BREAST THEY WERE BOTH PLAYING AROUND THEN HE TOOK HER INTO MY MOM'S ROOM AND LOCKED THE DOOR I USED A KNIFE AND OPEN THE DOOR HER SHIRT WAS UP AND I TOLD HIM IF HE DIDN'T LEAVE I'D TELL THEN MY SISTER STARTED CRYING WHEN HE LEFT WHAT SHOULD WE DO TELL OR KEEP IT A SECRET CAUSE IT'S VERY NASTY TO TRY TO HOOK UP WITH A FAMILY MEMBER PLEASE NO SILLY ANSWERS THIS IS SERIOUS ?

2006-07-20 13:01:15 · 44 answers · asked by ♥Natasha♥ 4 in Family & Relationships Family

44 answers

PLEASE TELL A RESPONSABLE ADULT, SHE MAY HAVE CRIED, BUT TELL HER, JUST THINK IF U HAD NOT STOPPED IT,
WHAT CRAZY,STUPID A S S E D THINGS HE COULD HAVE DONE 2 HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HIM TELLING HER IF SHE TOLD, HE WOULD HURT HER OR OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS,
BASICALLY KEEPING HER HOSTAGE, WHO KNOWS 4 HOW LONG,
U DID THE RIGHT THING OPENNING THE DOOR AS U DID!!!!!!!
I WISHED I HAD A FRIEND OR RELATIVE LIKE U WHEN I HAD GOTTEN RAPED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
U R A GREAT SISTER AND FRIEND!!!!!!!!
KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-20 13:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by bobby-bob 5 · 5 0

Your sister is doing something wrong and whether she crys or not it doesn't matter. You have too tell. This is really serious. If your sister continues this, this will get even farther and sister might act up. Make sure your cousin doesn't come in the house again. But when I mean tell don't just spit the words out. Talk to your parents seperately and tell them slowly what is happenin between your sister and cousin. Your cousin shouldn't be messing with his own family member. Your cousin should be calling her sister not calling her his girlfriend. But before talking to your parents discuss this with your sister. You should know everything before you tell anyone. Also tell his parents too. Don't let your sister's life get ruin. The right decision is to tell your parents. Don't keep it as a secret.

2006-07-20 13:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by ummestarz 2 · 0 0

This would not help your sister to keep this a secret. Bring it out into the open with both parents. A secret like this can fester for dozens of years.

In the end, you may become good friends with your cousin when it all works out. But if you keep this a secret, you will never be able to trust your cousin again. Your sister will alway have nightmares about it.

2006-07-20 13:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I believe you should tell the person in the family you trust most! That way you can always fall back on him/her if something comes up and you feel like you have to do one thing or another. By telling a member of ur family whom u trust u insure that at least someone knows who may be able to control the situation if it comes up again... then at least ur sister is safe because ur right it is not only nasty to hook up with a family member it's illegal in some areas! Oh, P.S:Before you tell the member of ur family about the incident, tell them that u came to them because u trust them, that way they will know something is seriously wrong and u'll have their attention to the fullest and also because that way they know they should act responsible because u trusted them with the information. And thats my answer, hope it works out!

2006-07-20 13:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by colby_fsu 1 · 0 0

Tell your parents right away, and tell your cousin to keep away from your sister. A relationship between cousins (usually first cousins) is wrong because they are too close in genetic terms. Any child they might happen to have is at risk of severe defects. Nip this in the bud now before it gets too serious.

2006-07-20 13:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0 0

Just keep the threat of telling over his head and he will never do it again because your sister would be in **** if you told she was playing aroound like that since it's clear your family culture frowns on that type of behaviour. Even though depending on your religious beliefs, it is allowed to hook up with cousins.

2006-07-20 13:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Kemo 3 · 0 0

dam that is nasty I would tell your mother or father. I wouldnt want oto get my sister in trouble but she agreed to doing knowing that it was a family memeber. She probabaly wont talk to youin a while but you should tell. Or you can sit down and talk to her and tell her the concequences about having sex with him and what will happen if she comes out pregnant and what her parents will say. But you will have to keep a close watch of them when he visits. Hope this helped. Good Luck

2006-07-20 13:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by unknown 2 · 0 0

Go ahead! Tell both parents. I know most people would agree with me. This is incest! This boy will eventually continue until he's charged for rape. Actually, what he was trying to do to your sister is raping her. Don't keep this! it not supposed to be a secret. You started to tell the whole world, now hurry go tell your parents.

2006-07-20 13:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by Reidi 3 · 0 0

You need to tell one of your parents immediately. Don't be scared by threats if they were made. The matter needs to be taken care of before something worse could happen to you or your sister. He could keep trying. Please don't be afraid to tell. You will save all of you alot of grief in the long run. He may have an underlying problem or maybe he did this to someone else and actually you may be helping someone else by telling.

2006-07-20 13:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by greekgirl31 2 · 0 0

report his nasty ***. that's absolutely RUDE and is not a playing matter! did anything else happen to your sister or anything? report him so he won't ever touch any of you guys ever again. don't keep it a secret. report him, save a couple of lives, he may be a pedophile. it's best to tell since your family and relatives will finally know the true cousin that lies within.

2006-07-20 13:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0 0

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