we were dating forever and i had to call it all off because my parents were having problems of their own and i couldnt stand having a long distance relationship. Now i fear i may have made the biggest mistake of my life....... he says hell wait for me but i dont want to hold him back from dating other girls. he doesnt want to hold me back from dating other guys and im okay with that because i knoe i wont date for a while but now its been about 2 months and i want to start getting into the dating thing again..am i wrong for wanting this? he still hasnt dated anyone that i know of and we havent talked to eachother since i made the mistake of ending it with him. my cousin who sees him every day says hes doing good and all that but hes not the same as before we started dating. he says he more lazy to get up and go out and he just wants to stay home. is it wrong for me to want to date another guy just to get him off my mind? No long distance relationships have ever worked, y should this 1?
2006-07-20 12:54:23 · 7 answers · asked by hAWAiiAN yOUNGiN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
,,, GO BACK FOR HIM NOW !!
not becouse u fear that oneday this relation will end then u end it urself now !! this is foolish !!
u r losing a good thing & a perfect lover just becouse u r affried !!
go back to him ,, its so hard to find a true love but u found it ,,so,, don't lose it .. if its meant to breakup so it'll be but at least don't make it end by ur hand !!
goodluck ;)
2006-07-20 13:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Nicholet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from what you are saying...I'm going to assume that you are young since your parents are involved in this situation. If you are living a long distance away from someone you want to be with there is definately going to be problems. Everyone has their first love and it usually doesn't end up working out. If you are wanting to date other people and want him to do the same than you should. Take some more time to get to know yourself better if you are having to ask yourself this question in the first place. Everything happens in time and there is no sense in hurrying anything. It would definately be better for the both of you if ya'll lived your own lives and lived day to day instead of trying to plan out the future. Good luck!
2006-07-20 20:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by noriahchapman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it won't work. For one you would not allow it to. You believed long distance relationships never work before you gave it a chance. Second, You should stopped playing with peoples feelings, either you want him or you don't.
And last, you're right again "you are an idiot".
2006-07-20 20:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's still thinking about you. you didn't mention anything about loving him. long distant relationships almost never work due to the distance. the good side to this is telephones, letters, email, chat rooms. there are ways to make it work if you really want it to.
it sounds like you need to check out other options in the man department. this is ok. you need to make sure you know what you want and need before you commit to any man. think about it. you heart will guide you, but only if your wise enough to listen to it.
2006-07-20 20:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep you sure are. I know of two long distance relationships that resulted in marriage. Both marriages are still pretty solid.
2006-07-20 20:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by kram k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest, move on. Look for a good guy to make you happy. Good luck!
2006-07-20 19:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you guys can still be friends, so you are still able to talk. and if find another guy your interested in and like i would go for it ^_^
2006-07-20 20:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by cavewomen24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋