i have never had a boyfriend but i want one but the catch is i want him to be a really good christian as well as nice and caring PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
2006-07-20 12:22:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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2006-07-20 12:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you want someone nice and caring because you have those qualities in yourself. A relationship with someone like that would have to build itself up from friendship into a boyfriend/girlfriend type of thing. That's because nice and caring people generally want a relationship that is of good quality, and they know those things take time. Try becoming friends with polite and respectful guys and you'll most likely find one of them that likes you. Just continue being nice and caring and you'll attract people similar to you because they want someone with the same thing as you. You also want them to be Christian? Then get involved in a youth group or bible study. Or pick a nice guy and just plain ask him if he's a Christian.
2006-07-20 20:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Silver Spoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a boyfriend? Is it because everybody else has one? Because you want to fit in? Will the relationship have a purpose to it (will it be for the purpose of ending in marriage)? Why not just have male friends? It is the man's job to initiate a relationship, not a woman's--that is the Christian side of the matter; nonChristians are not to be expected to follow on this teaching or any other teaching (you can't expect a nonChristian to live up to a Christian's standards). Below are some books you should consider reading.
2006-07-20 19:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by Zippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say "go to church to meet a nice man" but there it is. Usually, you will find a couple of decent guys but also not everyone that goes to church and claims to be a Christian is telling the truth. SO be careful. Don't mean to scare you. If you know any adults who are Christian and generally nice people, see if they have any sons your age. Doesn't hurt to ask...Also, church is for worship not a singles bar. Hopefully, the right person will find you. Good luck.
2006-07-20 19:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by knicole_21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're about 15, I'd guess from the writing style.
Lookit, kiddo, I'm a guy, and I was a pretty good Christian boy. But you're expecting perfect. And a "Man of God". Take my advice.......
1) Quit worrying about dating romantically and develop yourself as a person.
2) Have fun! Go, do, see, experience. Call up friends and go as a group
3) Stay a virgin, stay involved in your faith. It's your best shot at finding the kind of guy you're looking for.....someday!
4) Give the boys time to grow up. They're still boys! You're expecting something from them that they're not mature enough to deliver yet.
5) There probably are already guys like that around you right now....today! They're called "geeks". Give them time to grow, mature, fill out, and become men. Right now you aren't interested in them because they're not cool. But give them time to grow up - they're really the only guys that aren't shallow and have the capability of being MEN someday that aren't just interested in themselves.
2006-07-20 19:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all..Serve God first and He will give you the desires of your heart.
Then I would say..prayer, pray that God would send you a Christian, a true Christian, not just someone who "says" they are.
It may not be in God's will for you to have a relationship right now.Don't be in such a hurry...sometimes this can really mess up a Christian.Keep your eyes on Jesus and everything else will fall into place!!
2006-07-20 19:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Misti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Christian girl, there is one thing you need to do: pray that God will send you the right person...and wait patiently until He does.
I know you want someone right "now"...but...please take advice from an older woman who didn't do things right! Wait on the Lord...His best for you may take a little longer...but it will be the exact right person.
God bless you!
2006-07-20 19:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by christian_lady_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved in a local bible teaching word of faith Christian church, maybe youth group or something. But do it to get to know God better and get closer to him. Fall in love with Jesus, make him your boyfriend, and he'll help guide you to what's right for you in the long run. The bible says "Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and all these things shall be added unto you." God knows what you need better than you do, and he knows the desires of your heart. Seek him for help on EVERYTHING, especially this.
2006-07-20 19:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by Matt B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many cities have Singles' Bible Studies. There is one in the Dallas, Texas area that averages 2000-3000 people every week. Look for something like that.
2006-07-20 19:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother and his wife met on a Christian Singles site. They've been together for 4 years, and married for 2.
2006-07-20 19:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best place to find a nice christian boy is at nice chritia events.... like church and youth group...
if you go to youth group see the leaders about having combined events with other nearby youth groups... o you get to meet a wider range of people.
2006-07-20 19:26:34 · answer #11 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋