any good ideas on revenge on the ex now and his new girlgriend?

Question

just found out he been seein both of us. our 2 kids been involved and i am furious, cos its not just about me. to top it off she pregnant and did it on purpose to get at me and he with her now much to her delight. Im not letting either of them get away with this. i also want to put a virus on her computer as i have her e mail address now. any ideas!!!! please!!!!

Answer 1

Get over it and take care of your kids. He's a jerk, stop being so petty.

Answer 2

Don't stoop to such a low level. It may feel good, but the day will come when you regret what you did. Have some self-respect and cut these two completely out of your life. Imagine what laughs they will be having when you carry out your little vengeance attacks. They will really know that they are bugging you.
Don't let them know what you are feeling about this.

If you send a virus, won't they know it's you and get you into trouble with the police for harassing them?

You've got the opportunity to be a bigger person than you feel you can be, but just cos you're hurt, don't miss the opportunity. Set a good example for your kids- don't let them see you being petty and vindictive, what kind of lesson does that teach them???

Also, aren't you better off without your ex around? Do really want someone who will get someone else pregnant just to spite you to be involved in your life? Get as far away from them as possible!!!!!

Answer 3

Jesus Christ! What a pair of total ar*eholes!!! I'd want to kill the pair of them!! What I'd do is wait a few months then I'd do something. Appear to be fine with them both, then when they think you guys are alright again, then I'd do whatever came into my head! If you do it straight away they will know that whatever has happened you are the culprit...if you leave it a while, then they may think its not you! If you don't fancy doing that then I would probably try and throw a spanner in the works. Send some letters to the new girl, make her feel really insecure. Tell her all the things that he's done to you which he'll do to her too. I'd say that the only reason why you stayed with him despite everything is because of the kids and now she's going to trap herself in with him too now, making the same mistake you did. Just try and make their lives hell...I know that that is what I would want to do to the bast**ds! Another thing you could do is take him into court and ask for half his wage because of your kids and the things he's done. Try and get as much money out of him as possible!

Answer 4

Are you freakin serious here??? For crying out loud, grow the f%$k up. Is this the example you want for your kids? Isn't it bad enough that they have an single mother that is obviously way to young mentally to have a child, much less two of them, and you want to add adolescent behavior to the left side of this list? And people ask what's wrong with the world today, can I use you as the poster child??
Look, it is soooooo obvious that you are far from able to handle adult affairs, so I am going to attempt to help you, if for nothing else your kids. (someone has to care)...
First, why do you want to lower yourself to their standards? Aren't you tired of drama and problems in your life? Don't you already have enough issues and problems?
If this guy doesn't want to be with you, consider yourself lucky, geeess.. You can't go though life with such venemous motivations as the only thing that will come out of it is regular visits to the prision visiting your kids, that is if you even live that long...
Do you not want better for yourself and your kids than what you had? I mean, come on, is this the kind of life your kids are going to be proud of? One man after another, and the drama that comes after should he find that he doesn't want to play daddy to kids not his own while watching their mother go ballistic full of hate and revenge.
Why don't you stop thinking about yourself, and think of your kids, they didn't ask to have you for a mother, so try, I know it's hard, but try to do what is right for THEM.
Instead of teaching them hatred now when their young only to grow up with no self respect, integrity, accountability, or values, why don't you try to show them what it means to be proud??
Stay the f**k away from both of these people. What do you care what they do, where they go, whose baby, etc. HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH YOU, ACCEPT THAT AND MOVE ON.....
Also, consider permenent birth control, maybe getting your tubes tied, SOMETHING. Kids do not need a parent like you, two lives are enough for one person to destroy.

Poor kids....

Answer 5

Board up the front door when they are sleeping. Then in the crevice on top. Pour a bunch of cement in the open spot on top and then put the hose on it for a minute or so. Then throw another bag in the ex's car window and let the hose run in the car and have cement cover the dashboard, steering wheel, stereo, subs, seats, shifter. All that good stuff. If you want to keep it simple. Shut off the power and bust open their window and toss in a bucket of thumbtacks and haul ***. Cutting the power was so they cant turn on the lights to see what was put in the house, not til they roll/step/put their hand on all the tacks.

Yeaaahh.... That could be fun.

Answer 6

Ok listen by getting revenge you are playing right into his hands, trust me i have been there. Men like that love nothing more than to stand back and watch a cat fight between 2 women, hey what better way to massage his (probably already huge) ego? I know you are furious but the best way of getting revenge is to let him see just how much fun you are having without him, seriously i did this and my ex was fuming he said 'she didnt take long getting over me did she!' he was gutted and i was triumphant!!! If they see you acting crazed they know they have got to you, i guarantee if you stay cool he will be gutted and she will be worried (wondering just WHEN are you gonna strike) and baffled that you are so calm. This might not seem like a great revenge plan but when you look back and see just how dignified you were, and they will never have class like that you will be laughing i promise!!! Good luck honey you deserve better than that sleaze xx

Answer 7

don't go making them so important. You got kids, and you gotta look after them first. Why waste your precious time getting back 2 people who are so beneath you? Use your energy into creating a better life for yourself, cos eventually what goes around comes around. Your man cheated on you with her....just a matter of time before he cheats again. The best revenge is to have a better life, and if you move on, and do your own thing, he'll be begging you to take him back, and you can tell him where to go. that's the best revenge.

Answer 8

I've "nearly" been in the same boat. Only I don't have kids. My ex-husband cheated on me, I left him, and he got his gf pregnant. You bet your butt I wanted revenge, but the best revenge ever is to move on, and get a better life, without him. No man is worth it. Trust me on this.
Have some pride girl.......hold your head up high, and just let it go. You will be a better role model for your children in the long run.
Don't send a virus to the other women. That's petty, and likely can be traced back to your ISP address. Just cry a bit, eat some ice creme, call him names, but do it in your own home.......then MOVE ON.

Answer 9

I know how you feel, this just happened to me except i was expecting and then she was expecting. I luckily had a misscarriage, I sa luckily cause I wouldnt want to have to tell my child that his daddy was more worried about being with someone thin then be with someone who loved him.
The best way to get to them is to say you forgive them everytime you see them. I always act so positive and like nothing is wrong when I see them out. He has emailed me a few times asking why I am so nice after all he did to me. I said, "I have to forgive you so I can go on with my life, and you are stuck with her until the kid reach 18, I am free." Revenage will come to him for his actions! Believe me they will. I wish you the best of luck and dont let it get to you, you have children that need you and if they feel you are risking hurting the kids they will try to take them. So be as calm and collective as you can be! Show him how strong women are! And NEVER NEVER take him back he had his chance and lost it.

Answer 10

1. Get a friend of yours to call the new girlfriend's house and tell them that you are from the Sexual Health Clinic and that you need to see "the name of the ex here ie John Smith" in the clinic asap because a lot of his tests came back positive and that if she has been in sexual contact with him she better come too

2. Send a big bouquet of flowers over to the g/f's house with a note on them that says. "Ex's name here ie John", it was so great meet you at "insert name of local gay bar here" last weekend. I hope to see you there again soon, Love Steve"

As for doing anything worse than that.....you need to grow the hell up and NOW....remember that every other weekend YOUR CHILDREN are going to be WITH HER and you don't both need to be acting like a couple of stupid jealous 7th graders on the playground....you go ahead and be a ***** to her...and see what she does to your kids when they are over there for the weekends. Figure out a way to play nice.....it's not about you and him or him and her anymore it's WHAT'S IN THE BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILDREN.....smarten up!

Answer 11

and you would rather have this guy back with you?

Why would you want a cheater and a jerk?

You're better off without him. Let her have him, maybe she deserves someone like him.

I'm sorry if he was involved with your kids. Maybe you should have been more selective before introducing him to your kids.

Once again, good riddance. There are real men out there, you don't need someone like him.

good luck and God bless you and yours.

You'd be surprised at how quickly you can forget someone once you put your mind to it.