there is this boy i like and he likes me but we cant go out because he is 3 years older and both of us dont want to be friends with benifets, so what do i do, i dont want to just be friends!!!! please help and dont be rude!!!
2006-07-20 12:15:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG girl date him so what if the guy you like is a little older or whatever if you guys like each other go for it girl!!! good luck!
2006-07-20 12:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kaleigh I 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know he is 3 years older but you guys should try at least. See how it goes going out with some one older than you if you like it keep going out but be careful cuz some older guys might take the relationship to fast dont let him do anything to you that could be a mistake.
2006-07-20 19:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Gabi M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your best idea is to sit down with him and explain your feelings, three years is not so terrible unless there is the legal problem. Explain to him that you have started seeing him in a new way. He may be thinking the same thing and just be unable to express such things. Hope that has helped you out somehow.
2006-07-20 19:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by swordsmanoflight21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but you must consider how old he is. If he is 18 and he messes with you, he could wind up in jail with rape charges. THat would put him on the sex offender list for the rest of his life. If you care about him, would you want that to possibly happen to him?
Be a friend.
2006-07-20 19:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by rmedillar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have to ask this question you are too young to be doing whatever it is you are pondering!!! My advice is to move on and find someone your own age. You got your whole life ahead of you don't be in such a rush to grow up!!!
2006-07-20 19:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something tells me that you're too young to even be worrying about having a friend with benefits, maybe you should just be friends.
2006-07-20 19:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God in Heaven>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>How old are you? You must be young cause you can't spell. Grow up and wait.You won;t be sorry.
2006-07-20 19:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and find someone younger. There's nothing you can do except be his friend.
2006-07-20 19:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oy. tell him that you're gonna have to be friends with benifits, until it's legal.
2006-07-20 19:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by dudeman_OG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly want to be with him then you will wait and so will he otherwise hide it from everyone
2006-07-20 19:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by padgetterik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋