My Best Friend thinks she hot and wants to go out with her, but shes always in her room and later complains that no one even know she exists. any ways to get her to come out of the room so my friend can ask her out. (Oh and since he wanted me to put in the good word for him I bring him up a lot to her. and it turns out she has a huge crush on him but thinks he'll never see her because he is sooo hoooottt and would never think of liking a girl like her.) what do I do?
2006-07-20 11:50:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tough one. The simplest way would be to have you friend over, and get them to meet each other and talk to each other ... You could watch a movie with the two of them or something. If they actually like each other, and they talk for more then 10 minutes, things will start to move by themselves...
Also, it sounds to me like you sister is having some problems with her self esteem. If she is a teenager, that could be normal, however I'm sure she would appreciate a lot if you would encourage and say nice things about her more often.
Edit: I cannot believe how many answers you got in 6 minutes..
2006-07-20 11:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Xtyn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all. . . and more important than your sister getting a "hot" boyfriend. . .you need to get her out of her room. She needs to be out in the real world doing things so her interpersonal skills will develope as well as her entire being. Second of all. . . she needs to realize that a "hot" boyfriend should not be and can not be the ultimate goal. She needs to ignore what tv, the media, and girls magazines say. . . she needs to find somebody that likes her for who she is. . . someone who treats her right. . . and someone who will stimulate her growth as a person. That being said. . . if your friend is such a person. . . . and he is interested in her. . . . tell him to barge into her room and ask her if she wants to hang out. If you're afraid this might be too much for your sister and she'll have a heart attack. . . then start some activity or go somewhere with your sister and tell your friend to drop by and join you. This way she can get more comfortable around him in a less threatening environment. Then maybe after a while your friend can ask her to hang out. Just make sure your friend treats her right and does well by you. You are also commended for caring about your sister. I don't know how old you are but just remember very few hook ups last at a young age. . . so just be aware of all that is involved so you, your sister, and your friend don't all end up hating each other. Good luck!
2006-07-20 11:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like she has a self confidence problem.. i think it'll mean a lot coming from you if you tell her that she is a beautiful person, inside and out. hopefully u have a good enough relationship w/ her to just be able to say anything.... and altho it's "gross" to tell ur sister that she's hot, lol... just tell her u think she's pretty and that u think her personality is AWESOME... and that u think ur friend is a great guy, and he *TOLD* you that he thinks she's pretty!! give her some info on him (what he likes/dislikes, if he's kind of a player/confident, or is gentleman to girls) so she knows what to expect..she sounds maybe like she's shy.....or maybe even standoffish? anyways, tell her as a guy u would be interested in confident, happy girls who are nice, and not too hermit-ish.... =T make sure u tell her u KNOW she's not a hermit, but everyone else will think so if she just stays in her room and doesn't get practice going out and talking to people. since u know ur friend likes her, it's gonna be way easy to get them together... maybe u can plan a group date, like movie or mini golf? or have him come over and watch dvd w/ you and her, and then "someone calls ur cell, u have to go talk in other room". if it doesn't work out cuz she's too shy, oh well.. at least u tried. if it does and they get along well, cool! give her some advice, like not to be nervous..she deserves a good guy, so in order to find out if they are good she has to get to know them better. simple as that....the longer she practices going out and meeting *new* people, the easier it will be to get along w/ ANYONE, make friends, girls or boys.
2006-07-20 12:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by drinkwater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them together! Invite your sister out to lunch/dinner or whatever you can get her out of her room for, and then invite him too. Let him know your plan, since he already likes her - so maybe he can bring her some flowers or something like that. Once she knows that he is interested I bet she will be spending a lot less time in her room.
2006-07-20 11:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.. I'm guessing you have a phone. Have your friend call and ask her out. The phone is her connection to the outside world. And find out what she's doing in her room... see if she can do it outside of it, or if it's even something she should be spending a lot of time doing at all.
2006-07-20 11:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by Nuwanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell both of htem they need to step up to the plate; your friend should ask her out to dinner, etc., see where it leads.
Tell your SISTER to get out of her room and that she'll never find anything if she doesn't get off her but and ask!
The worst that can happen? Rejection. Move on.
The best that can happen: You get a date! Congrats.
2006-07-20 11:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by I think... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay it out on the line....tell her that he told you that he liked her and wants to see her. Tell her she's an idiot for staying in her room all the time, when there's a guy that she likes who also likes her!!
2006-07-20 11:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by alacaliwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get out of her room or she'll miss the chance of finding the love of her life.
2006-07-20 11:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that he likes her, that should get her to come out of her room.
2006-07-20 11:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋