Story:
I just dated this incredible girl and we had nothing but an awesome time together. She used to date this guy (who was also her first boyfriend) who was controlling and verbally abusive. They broke up about 3-4 times over. Her friends and parents hate him. She would tell me how she hated the things he did and how she couldn't be his friend. Now we've broken up and they're friends, however she isn't dating him nor really hanging out with him. She's basically shut me out of her life, although she really wanted to be friends and still hang out. I still get the feeling she really misses me (she has to!) but we haven't talked in almost 2 weeks (except brief text message).
Problem:
I really just want her and I know hanging out is where it begins but how do I ask her if she wants to hang out without sounding needy/like I want her back? How can I show her I want to be friends without making it seem like I miss her?
2006-07-20 11:45:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say this but you were a rebound guy and You should just move on too many fish in the sea
2006-07-20 11:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol u really do ask this same question over and over..in fact i just emailed u a long one and was running out of available text. i just want to add this: there's NOTHING wrong with missing her!! be a MAN about your feelings... that way, you will never regret what *you've* done in the relationship. if she rejects, yeah it hurts...but at least she knows what page you're on. if she doens't want to be on the same page that's *her* decision to make, not yours. find someone who WANTS to be on your page, and is willing to work *with* you to stay there. that means u want to take care of all her needs, and she wants to take care of all your needs. any problems in between will be taken care of thru communication and open minds...if that doesn't work..she's just not right for you.
2006-07-20 18:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. That is the only thing you really can do. Let some time pass before you try to really become friends.
2006-07-20 18:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Aha! I Caught You! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to do.. unless you see her often, then you could just start up some innocent conversation... but if she broke up with you, then she probably doesnt want to go back... but you do miss her, and you are needy so it will be hard.. just think it through..
hope this helps
2006-07-20 18:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋