and now that she has 1 day left she is trying to find a place to live. But she has robbed my house and half of my family.I dont know rather to give her a chance or let her handle it on her own.
2006-07-20 11:12:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Im sorry and I dont mean to be cruel. But you need to let her handle this situation on her own. If you and other people have tried to help her in the past only to have your hand bitten then you need to let her deal with her own homelessness. I believe in letting people learn the hard way especially when that seems to be the only way they will ever learn anything. Point her in the direction of a shelter.
2006-07-20 11:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Brock C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother sounds like she needs help... but she's looking for other people to solve her problems. If you decide to help her out, realize that you will be enabling her behavior. Your mother may need counseling or professional help. You really need to know why she hasn't paid her rent... was she fired, is she into drugs or alcohol, etc. When you mentioned she's robbed your house, that tells me she has a big problem. She may be mentally ill... she may need you now more than ever. Good luck!
2006-07-20 11:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mom is SOL and has some serious issues. If you want, I'd let her sleep at your place a few nights only, don't give her a key, and she has to be out of the house anytime you are not home. Don't give her any money you can't afford to not have returned and don't let her in if your conditions are not acceptable to her.
2006-07-20 11:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by Taffy Saltwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a job? if so you might offer your mother a few dollars towards the payment of the rent, also since she is behind there might be problems with the landlord. but check for laws in your state regarding evixtions and see if you might be able to work out a payment pland and try to help your mother as much as possible. from personal experience being homeless ia not the easiest thing to deal with and help is very ahrd to find.just try to tak as much responsibility as you can, i know it isnt easy dealing with this kind of thing vut im sure your mother did not get in this position deliberately.
2006-07-20 11:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by madamtortuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her handle it on her own. Once she has to spend some time on the street she will make damn sure she pays her rent next time.
2006-07-20 11:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let her back in, this may seem mean but if she comes into your home and robs you again that will be even worse. She can figure something out on her own.
2006-07-20 11:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Legal Eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not let her live with you. She has no respect for you or her family. Tell her she has to handle it on her own. Don't put your own loved ones through it.
2006-07-20 11:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by Cardinals = Greatness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her handle her own she has to learn to pay for rent
2006-07-20 11:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by xscrappylocox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think that she would do if the tables were turned and you need to think about your own family first.
2006-07-20 11:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by brokenheartsyndrome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋