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Why do we feel like we are not worth it for a guy some time,s? why do we get feeling like this?

2006-07-20 11:10:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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HUNNY!!!
what is with you wemon, I mean some times they spend like thousonds of dollars on us, and you wemon are still asking this question! GOD!!!!!
and we choose to let this happen to us!
Lay low on these guys! guys are all they can be to us and thats them, I mean if they have attidude problems than they need to get help! But lay low,
I mean at first i felt like this too, but then I got to know one guy and his name is taylor, and hes all aroiund MINE swweeet, baby cute, fine and sexy!
Guys are all they can be .
Love them!
thats all they want is for you to love them!

2006-07-20 11:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Some of you women make US feel like crap, and we're tired of it. Working up the courage to approach a woman, and not just getting denied, getting BEATEN down verbally, then pointed out and bashed all night long.

But more specifically, many of you AREN'T worth it. I'm never going shopping for 10 hours in a store for an outfit, getting asked my opinion, and then the woman chooses the other one, and then after my Saturday is completely shot a purchase did not result.

Many aren't worth it because you make us work too hard and then we have the lovely privelidge of being expected to PAY for everything. Uh haha, no, I don't think so girl.

And I hate to tell you, but you may either be ugly, hot and with an arrogant attitude, or you're average and you don't smile and act pleasant enough - those are the most common problems. I'm not saying you have them, I'm just giving you an unfortunate truth.

2006-07-20 18:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0 0

No one can make you feel that no matter what they say or do. You have to know within yourself that you are valuable and worth something. This guy is not worth you wasting your time with him. There is someone out there that will think you are worth it.

2006-07-20 18:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0 0

You feel that way because you put too much stock in their opinion of you, and base your worth on what the guy thinks...stop doing that.

Not everyone we like is going to like us back or like us in the same way we like them...that doens't mean we're not "worth it", just not a good match with them...and that's okay! Do we really want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with us? I don't!

Don't let rejection cause you to feel unworthy of anything or anyone...surely you don't dig everyone who comes on to you? Of course not...that doesn't mean they aren't worth your time, but just that you didn't find them appealing for whatever reason(s)...which just means that someone else will, because there are so many different types of people in the world...

Chin up...stop letting other people's behavior toward you influence how you feel about yourself...be the best you that you can be, and move forward...if other people don't like you for who you are, that's okay...you'll find plenty that do!

2006-07-20 18:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0 0

It's not about what a guy is making you feel like.. its about how your feeling about yourself. Because if a guy is making you feel like ****, then you obviously don't think to highly of yourself... but on the other hand if a guy was doing things that you don't agree with or it seemed to you that he was trying to make you feel bad about yourself and you thought highly of yourself you would'nt give a **** of what he was talking about and it probably wouldn't even bother you.

2006-07-20 18:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If a guy makes you feel that way, kick him to the curb. You are living for YOU and you need to make sure YOU are happy. You are better than that. Always remember those words.

2006-07-20 18:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0 0

I'm sorry you feel that way about yourself. I have NEVER let any man make me feel less of a person or equal. You need to have more self esteem then that....who gives a crap what he thinks...you know better or should!

2006-07-20 18:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0 0

That is a matter of self image. Somebody should not be able to make you feel small if you are independant and love yourself.

2006-07-20 18:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0 0

Only you can make yourself feel like that ,you tell a guy to shove off if they try.

2006-07-20 18:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mom 6 · 0 0

Because we don't feel good about ourselves and let them make us feel even worse. We need to know we are valued and let them know it. All men aren't like that it is just immature and insecure ones.

2006-07-20 18:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0 0

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