2006-07-20 11:06:45 · 14 answers · asked by pretty girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
first off... how old are you? i think anything under 15 is too young and that is even pushing it
2006-07-20 11:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by lexie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a good reason why he isn't letting you date. Likely he doesn't want you to get pregnant. They'd be more problems. More expenses. Honor your Father and Mother as the bible says, cause it comes with a promise from God - a long life. Check it out Exodus Chap. 20 'n Deuteronomy Chap. 5. If you are over 18, get married first - why have a kid and not be committed with each other.
When we are young our parents know nothing, then as we get older, they know a little, then they're pretty smart, then when we are older, they know a lot. And when your dad dies, you'll say I wish dad was here so I can talk with him. life is short, listen to him. Salut
2006-07-20 18:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same problem I had when I was a teenager........But now I have a BF or rather I should say I got married to him after dating for 2yrs and my dad loves/adores him. You just have to choose a perfect guy thats what I think ........and you'll see your dad won't have any problem with him. But if you date a punk or you keep changing your date every now and then ....then I don't know better watch out.....Or what U could do is convince him that you'll be safe.......I am sure your dad trusts you but he doesn't trust the guy you'll be dating so convince him and be honest.
good luck with that
2006-07-20 18:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Shells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , I told my girls no dating until 16 , I think your dad is doing a great job , you may not think so now, but just think if you went on that date and that guy date raped you ,how would you handle that and be pregnant at same time? These things you should think about when going on a dated , even at 30.
2006-07-20 18:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by its_ok_im_here69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age. Sit with him and discuss the problem. He has a reason. He has to be shown that he can trust you and that trust has to be earned. I have a 16 year old and even though I trust her I can't always trust the others. So, I have to believe she will make the right choices. It is very hard on a parent to let go sometimes. Give him some time. Don't keep harrassing him, that only makes things worse. Discuss double dating with someone he does trust.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-07-20 18:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by Teresa B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are younger than 15 (like someone said), I would say wait. He may be able to accompany you and your date on our outings- as a chaperon. He could take you to the movies, etc.
He's your dad and he his doing his job. Protecting you.
If you're under 18, and you're living at home, he's the boss.
If you try to sneak out, you'll just make it worse for yourself. Follow the rules and later on, Dad may be more flexible.
2006-07-20 18:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Malika 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live with it. I mean, there isn't much point in a two week romance that results in a month long heartbreak. Besides, he'll loosen up eventually.
2006-07-20 18:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by *luz* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all how old are you? Lets start there.
2006-07-20 18:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.
2006-07-20 18:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Guzman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your dad
2006-07-20 18:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by sunflower_dancer80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋