I was dating this girl for almost one year, She was divorced and was 3 years older then me, I knew her before when she was married and then found out one day she divorced her husband because he cheated on her.... anyways I took a initiative and tried to be good friends with her so she would feel better and wont feel so lonely. Anyways we became good friends that I left all my other girl friends because she didn’t like me talking to them.... we had our arguments and fights like every couple has, and we also had lots of fun together... she had always told me that her family is now going to look for someone for her after her divorce which was a love marriage. After almost eleven months something she made this new friend…and this guy proposed to her. She is talking to this guy a lot and she is talking to me the same way.... I don’t like the fact that she is talking to him and not being honest to him about me and expect me to treat her same way I use... I want her to realize ,and feel sorry
2006-07-20 10:53:03 · 4 answers · asked by Khan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm....
The 'sweetest and most caring person I've ever been out with' would never treat me that way.
She doesn't seem so sweet to me after hearing what she's doing. Maybe you need to step back and look at the bigger picture, or find something to do and leave her alone for a couple weeks and then see how things look.
If she doesn't want to be with you, why would you want her to be?
Find someone who really wants to be with you. I think you can find someone who is sweeter and much more caring than this one. There are way too many girls out there for you to be dealing with this kind of crap.
Be happy you got to know her and had some good times. If she's busy talking to other guys, don't stress, just move on down the road....
I did it plenty of times, until I found the one for me. I couldn't be happier now that we're married and all.
Don't deal with the drama. It's not worth it.
2006-07-20 11:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is engaged to another be happy for her if that's what she wants. If she has not accepted the proposal tell her how you feel. It sounds like an arranged marriage in the making. If she decides to go with the other man there are many other sweet and caring women for you to meet and you will have to move on.
2006-07-20 18:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by # one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell you something not to do. that is not to go out and sleep with another girl tryin to get over her. my buddie told me to do that and it made me feel horrible.
2006-07-20 17:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by Wythe L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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She's angling for you to propose marriage to her.
May the best man win.
stw
:)
2006-07-20 17:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋