Ok it's this really hot guy at my job I totally have a crush on him ok I want his so bad. It's like I'm crazy about him I don't want a relationship just one night. Help me please what should I do?
2006-07-20 10:25:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wanna tell u from my past experiences..that you shouldnt mix bussiness with pleasure..find someone outside the workplace..let me give u a brief story of mine..i felt the same way about this guy i worked with....we were together a few months..and broke up..we ignored eachother for about 2months..walked by eachother at work and didnt sayanything..you know how hard that is to work with someone knowing you dont talk to them..or knowing you had feelings for them and you have to go to work ignoring them or knowing yall dont talk..even if you dont like someone at work..a female for example its just the same..you should go to work to do a job not to like people and make friends and boyfriends out of them..because you can have an enemy at work and trust me thats not a fun enviroment when you have to deal with them everyday..but anyways..i guess every situation is different..but im going to tell you if you do it..see what signs is he giving you? does he like you? does he feel the same? talk to him and get to know him first..just say "hey would u like to see that new movie that jus came out?" something like that..or if yall get off at the same time..jus go flirt with him little by little and make small talk...eventually is it grows with you seeing him and talking to him and vise versa..its all going to fall into place..just go slow..trust me you dont want to go fast and everything blow up like my relationship did..take ur time..be friends for asssss longgggg as you can..because once yall break up..thats that..and thats not fun..anyway hope i helpd..good luck!
2006-07-20 10:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in luck, there are not to many men who will say no to a quickie. Our standards are not that high, but we have to be physically attracted to you. Girl if you are hot then your every mans fantasy! Guilt free sex, wow, I'm excited just thinking about it. If he speaks to you and holds a conversation with you non business related for more than 5 minutes, just tell him what you want.
2006-07-20 18:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Gingerbread Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huny,
At some point when you have that one night your going to probably find that you want a whole lot more time with that boy!.
Your going to have to ask him, but If you have just one night then its gonna make a big diffrence, because this dude might start liking you more, then he'll want you too! so much more to be with eachother!
You cant just be with one eprson one day unless you guys arent faund of eachother! that'd be nutts!
2006-07-20 17:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him....Men are all about one night stands. You can't present yourself like that thouhg, I would spark up a general conversation with him. From that you'll build a rapport then you can ask him to "do" something, and the rest is history....
2006-07-20 17:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him on a date and just take your time. It won't be just one night if you don't let him have it on the first night. Good luck!
2006-07-20 17:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by if i only knew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just know that getting involved with someone at work has its repercussions.
Chances are everyone might hear about it, you could be looked at differently...
But if you are confident in yourself, and unfazed by your co-workers judgment....
go for it!
But make sure he knows it's a one night thing, before you become co-workers with benefits.
I don't know....
if it were me, I'd enjoy the fantasy of being with him; instead of getting in a sticky situation.
2006-07-20 17:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Missouri_MT. Be careful, it's not healty to get involved with someone who works at the same place. Things might turn ugly...!
2006-07-20 17:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by adriana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One night would likely make it a bit awkward for you to work together afterward...put that idea on hold if you both plan to continue working there...
...and please, if you're into the casual sex thing, be sure and use protection!
2006-07-20 17:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out his hobbies, go with him to one, ask him back to your place for a drink after, then let the alcohol take over....
2006-07-20 17:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by Dwight D J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bad business to get involved with someone from work even for a quickie.
2006-07-20 17:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by Bubbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋