I write poetry and play guitar and sing and I can cook and clean and I go to church and I'm a nice guy... not ugly... at least, I am tall and athletic, if that counts for anything...
when I ask girls out they're always like "yea we gotta do something" but when they find out I ride the bus everywhere, they suddenly become very busy and start accidentally leaving their phone on silent all the time... I have a real nice place with big TV's and stereos and all that, but I like to keep the 1000+ dollars a month it costs for car payments, insurance, and gas and spend on something else.
Why is it that girls just totally don't go for that? I mean, come on, I would cook a girl dinner and then sing a bunch Beatles songs to her but since I don't have a car, she'd rather go out with some boring guy who does have one but just wants to have sex and skip the romance...
Am I living in the wrong time?
2006-07-20 10:16:49 · 34 answers · asked by Ether 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No, but you are in the wrong section. Do you realize you are in the religion section? Maybe that's why you can't get a girl, try the relationship section down the hall on the left
2006-07-20 10:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman can get away with telling a guy she rides the bus, but a guy can't really do that and save face, unless he's in high school. It's not exactly fair, but that's the way it is. It sounds like you're a nice person, but realistically, come on. If you can afford a nice place, big screen tv, stereo and all that, you can buy a car. How are you supposed to take a woman out, with no transportation? A bus transfer is not romantic. A used car is not that much and you don't have to worry about huge payments, that will lock you down for awhile. Like some women, I look a lot deeper into a man than just what he possesses, but da-mn! If something happens and I need my man to come get me, I'd like to know he can jump in his car and help me out. Invest! because once you have your own transportation, you'll love the independence.
2006-07-20 23:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by mangosmoothie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 00:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by fellman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, it does not matter if you do not have a car right now. My fiance as a matter of fact, owns his own car, but it does not work at the time. He was in a severe auto accident, and has vision problems, so he rides the bus everywhere, not until recently did he start driving, but i lend him my car to drive. We do not leave together, he leaves with his parents and I with my parents. I read you go to church, just pray hard and let God do the rest, he will bless you with the girl who truly loves you for you are and not for what you have. It is sad that many females now a days, instead of focusing on a MAN of Character, look a materialist items and appearance that only leads to no where. Best of luck
2006-07-20 10:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, you are a great catch.
The next time a girl disses you because you ride a bus take no heat! It's their loss.
You could spend your $1,000 a month and buy a car and they still won't date you because you are broke! Girls are complicated because they don't know what they want in life. You need to find an older attractive lady that has all the nice things and can appreciate you!
I am only 29 so I don't count.
Toodles.
2006-07-20 10:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't agree more with you!!!!!! I don't have a car, never have, and I also ride the bus everywhere!! How cool is that? When people hear that I don't drive, they act funny and make it look like I am TOTALLY in the wrong time and place.....You are not at all living in the wrong time, and that doesn't exclude you from dating....God has someone special out there for you, if it's His will that is, and she will love you no matter what. I would love to chat sometime! IM me if you ever want to!
In Christ,
Sabrina
2006-07-20 10:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by SS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To the person who seems in anther time zone
I mean no desrespect I'm not gay!! but can I have your phone
number Hell I'll go out with you I'm looking for a friend to go places with I don't drink and I do smoke
The point is your doing the right thing but don't tell them about your money because the'll use you till it's gone then you will be a gentleman with no car and no money buyer-be-where o.k.
if they can't except you for you then they are the worry one for you don't be descerged "keep-on-Keeping-on men like me and you are rer most people don't unstand us they think matireal items and touch contact are most inportane but they are worry very worry my advise is simpel don/t lower your standers hold on YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT ONE IF YOU KEEP TREING
feel free to corispond with me and others I hope I was of help
My e-mail: solar6018@sbcglobal.net
2006-07-20 10:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by matt m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you spirtually. At least, not from the examples you provided. but if you are older than 21, you need a car. Girls want to know that over a night of romance, they won't be taking the bus. Cab actually cheapens the whole experience too
2006-07-20 10:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by gplay2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a cheap used car. Insurance will be low if the car's not expensive ( I pay a little more than $500 per year) Don't use it when you don't need to, so you don't pay much for gas, and it you really do save that much, you can easily by a decent used car for 2k straight up and not have to make payments.
2006-07-20 10:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by The Resurrectionist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new car that's been sitting on a lot for a year, learn to drive a stick shift (all cars that don't sell are stick shifts), and fork over a little money.
You shouldn't be paying more than $200 per month for a car if you avoid getting a pointless, gas-guzzling SUV.
2006-07-20 10:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by Minh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if a guy has a car or not, but I kind of like someone else right now. I am sure you will find someone, why don't you try to concentrate on doing things for you instead of impressing a girl? You will find the right one when you are supposed to; usually the right one comes when you're not looking for anyone.
2006-07-20 10:29:27 · answer #11 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋