how do i get over past disappointments?

Question

it seems as if everything just seems to stay in my mind. every heartache, bad situation, its still there. i cant trust anyone anymore and i cant picture myself ever confiding in another male because they have proven to me to be the same.

Answer 1

Life is full of disappointments. No one is perfect and we all need to except that. Life can knock you down, I know, You need to sort of why you can't trust anyone, hope this will help. It did for me.
7 steps to healing your feeling. sorting it all out in a healthy way.
1. willingness
2. awareness
3.allowance
4expression
5release
6replacement
7.rejoicing

Please take some time, to think why. put it on paper and pray for guildance to help you, sort it all out. be truthful to your self.

My best wishes to you, that you find understanding, good luck.
This is how i came to terms with all of disappointments. hope this helps.

Answer 2

You learn that it is not your fault, that you are very worthy. And that disappointment only hurts to the extent to which your were hoping for something and it didn't happen the way you expected it. Learn from past mistakes and don't make them twice. If you trust yourself then you will be able to trust others too.

Answer 3

well, every men are almot same. but you should accept them as it is. so take risk and instead of trying to change them, try to change yourself! this is really easier. trust yourself and if any bad thing occurs again, just forget him and look to the future! you will find the right person after meeting the wrong persons!

Answer 4

u deff. need to find someone. when you find a best friend, and trust me you can, then it wont feel the same. there will b the hard times. the bad times. and yet u will rise. experiences are like that. u just need 2 learn how to use them, and bcome stronger.