like not being laughed at or being seen that the guy is weird?
is there something wrong with saving it for the future wife, but haven't found her?
2006-07-20 10:16:25 · 15 answers · asked by Rock 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. I can't wait to see what shallow answers you get for this one.
The real truth is, there is nothing wrong with saving yourself for a wife or husband. If you are a spiritual person, then you know that there is spiritual benefit for abstaining until marriage. A lot of people who have already had sex can vouch for the statement, "It's not something I couldn't have waited for." Who cares if you are a 20 or 40yr old virgin? If Mrs./Mr. Right hasn't come along keep waiting. Because having sex with everyone that comes your way doesn't turn them into Mrs./Mr. Right.
My advice: Stop worrying about what other people think about you. In the end, you are the one that has to live with yourself. While others go off and catch STD's and can't hold down a steady relationship, you'll be able to live with the comfort of knowing you're safe and doing things the right way. When you stop worrying you will become comfortable with yourself and this is important, because no age is going to ever be ok for being a virgin if you constantly care that other people are laughing at you or what they think.
Best Wishes!
2006-07-20 10:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by PseudoQuasiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there something wrong with saving it for your future wife??
NO!!!
Listen to me, as a women who is very loyal, and also LOVES the idea of sex. That is an INCREDIBLE mindset to have. I'm being totally seriously when I say that when you find the girl you want to marry, and she knows you've never been with anyone and only want it from her, she is going to give you the RIDE OF YOUR LIFE. If you want AMAZING sex in your future, you are on the RIGHT TRACK. Nothing-- NOTHING is hotter than a guy that is all for his girl.
2006-07-20 10:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is the best time. You have that special gift to give the person that you really love. Too many people give away their intimacy and therefore it means nothing to anyone any more. What is the deal that people think having sex is not a part of the commitment of marriage? So many people are contracting sexually transmitted deceases and having babies that they don't want and don't take care of or they kill them.
Please consider dating and finding someone that you love, honor, respect and can be best friends with before you make a mistake. And what is weird about respecting yourself and your future wife this much?
2006-07-20 10:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with waiting. People only give virgins crap because no matter what, they can never be one again. It takes someone really special to wait, and I think it would be a great honor to a women to know that you waited just for her even if you have not met her yer. Who cares what others say. Only you have to live with your conscious do what is right for you and forget the rest.
2006-07-20 10:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
100
2006-07-20 10:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 21 and a virgin.....i'm a Christian so i position self belief in saving sex for marriage. i imagine it is ur ideal guess in searching a virgin it is older...there are a great number of adult males obtainable waiting till they're marrried to have sex. i bypass to penn state and that i'm serious some christian fellowship the position there are a great number of eligible virgin bachelors, attempt searching for a set like that...good success
2016-12-02 00:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by fellman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
24 or 25.
2006-07-20 10:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by realstylesint'l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that your future wife is probably not saving it for you. So you may as well have fun while you can.
2006-07-20 10:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with saving yourself for someone special who deserves you -- I sure do wish that I had. One of my deepest regrets in life.
2006-07-20 11:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by NA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is totally up to u and when u are ready to handle it so guys its young cuz of peer pressure others are smart like u and wait till marriage i recently became a born again virgin cuz i regret what i did and with whom =(
2006-07-20 10:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by funlovingcaligurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋