What do i do??? The father of my baby we have been together for a year now and he left me in December and just now recently got back together when the baby was born a month ago. He left me for reasons of his own --nothing i did. But now all he does is say "who is there", "tell your other man", "i know you're cheating on me". Just now i called to tell him i missed him and he said "call youre other man and tell him" What the ****? I dont go anywhere, i dont have any friends, hes all i got. Why the hell is he putting me through this ****? What do i do?? I dont give him any reasons to ever even think i was screwing around on him!!
2006-07-20 10:11:02 · 11 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Everyone that I've known whose "significant other" started doing that found out that the accuser was actually the guilty party. They're all divorced now even when they had kids together.
2006-07-20 10:14:46 · answer #1 · answered by Vanessa B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
GIRLFRIEND!! HE MIGHT BE THE GUILTY PARTY. HE MAY BE THE ONE DOING DIRT. I WONT TELL YOU TO LEAVE HIM, THERE IS A CHILD INVOLVED. I CAN SAY THAT MAYBE YOU SHOULD SIT DOWN WITH HIM AND HAVE A SERIOUS TALK AND FIND OUT WHY HE FEELS THIS WAY. HE MIGHT BE INSECURE WITHIN HIMSELF. JUST TRY TO WORK THINGS OUT. MAYBE EVERYTHING JUST HAPPENED TOO FAST FOR HIM AND HE DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THE SITUATION. I CAN BET HE HAS ALOT GOING ON IN HIS HEAD RIGHT NOW.THAT DOES NOT GIVE HIM AN EXCUSE TO BEHAVE THE WAY HE HAS BEEN TOWARD YOU. YOU JUST KEEP BEING THE WOMAN THAT YOU ARE.IT WILL GET BETTER I DO NOT THINK ITS THAT SERIOUS YOU SHOULD LEAVE HIM. GOD BLESS ON YOU NEW BABY.
2006-07-20 17:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by sunshyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex would be like this but in reality he was cheating on me so he figured I must also be cheating on him.
If this man is all you have it sounds like you need to find some support groups and various friends.
2006-07-20 17:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by neona807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"d be telling him to get some mental help or getting rid of of his insecure butt. Life is hard enough without putting up with that crap all the time.
2006-07-20 17:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by darlene793 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is CHEATING!
Kick him to the curb and talk to family you can stay with. File for child support, maybe some counseling and be the independent woman you are.
2006-07-20 17:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by ric_ozz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't got the message that it's time to leave than you are in trouble.
2006-07-20 17:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by i_got_sars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's HIS problem. HE IS INSECURE.
He sounds rather dump-able, other than the whole fathering thing.
2006-07-20 17:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Nick Fury 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you still want this person? I think it's his own guilt coming through...
2006-07-20 17:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by Indigo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he's probably cheating, guilty type consious type thing.
2006-07-20 17:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just leave him. if he doesnt trust u then the relationship isnt gonna work out.
2006-07-20 17:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋