I like a guy. I want to ask him out. How can I go about this? He is my best friend. I have known and liked him for years. How do I ask him out? I don't want to lose his friendship if we break up!
2006-07-20 10:05:17 · 9 answers · asked by Time goes by 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off show him that you like him (note show, don't tell! Words are used where actions fail). If you guys are hanging out or watching a movie one night, pretend to be tired and rest your head on him. Give him that look...where you just look into his eyes and hold it for a little longer than normal (with that cute smile). Go on a double date with a friend and her boyfriend (but don't call it a double date). Are you seeing a pattern here? Start doing things that couples do and he will start thinking in this way too. Good luck!
2006-07-20 10:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is risk. You have to risk losing him as a friend in order to see if you can take it to the next level. The question you must ask yourself is whether you can live with yourself if you do not go for what you want.
Good Luck.
2006-07-20 17:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, The problem that I see is a generational thing, I do not think that it is wise or welcome for a girl to ask a man, or boy out for a date. Women and you as well, know how to flirt, and lead the idiots (US MEN) along to get what they wish. Become a master or mistress of the art of flirting, and you will never have the problem of asking and recieving rejection. Leave that to us as our burden to bear!
2006-07-20 17:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by R. W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self, never be fake. Losing him if yall break up is a risk,if your a risk taker the go for it. But i personally like when a woman is straight and forward with me . so the best advise is to just be yourself.
2006-07-20 17:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by saints_fan_2584 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing his name is bryan...
if you are best friends with him, then it's as simple as "hey, do you want to catch that movie tonight?"
the more you make plans with him alone, the more he'll know you like him
or you can just ask him to have lunch with you at McDonald's or whatever and just come out and say you like him
if he rejects you, try not to look desperate, but try to be like "oh well", to let him know that you are not that desperate for him
then you two can still stay friends even if it doesn't work out
2006-07-20 17:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he'd like to go out sometime, if he says no, then just tell him you still wanna be bfs, if he says yes, then good for both of you.
2006-07-20 17:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by packerswes4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, havnt seen this question a million times. just ask him. theres no right way...just ask already people.
2006-07-20 17:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by rogdogg187 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
freakin ask the damn question
2006-07-20 17:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck Williams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it, everything has a end.
2006-07-20 17:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Oriel-Nirnaan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋