ok. i i'm 15 years old and i'm never interested in a bf i never like non of my friends. i care more about stury and my family. one of my friends say that i'm lesbian but i know that i'm not
2006-07-20 10:03:15 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't worry about what your friends say about this. I wasn't interest in boys when I was that age. Actually the first real boyfriend I had, I only got because of my friends constantly trying to hook us up when I was 16. So, don't worry about it; don't go out and date any guys if you aren't really that into it; just wait and keep doing what you want and what is most important to you.
2006-07-20 10:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Deja Entendu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People will always say good and bad things about you all the time. In this case, they criticize you for focusing more on your family and your studies which you know it is your priority at your age.
Either your friends are already planning on moving on to the top of the mountain without knowing what they will be facing if they skip the important levels in the mountain. You on the other hand are doing the right thing, family comes first, and so does your education. You can have a date, or maybe a someone you may be attracted to, but it is better for you to do it when it is the right time, when you are a bit older to know what is really going on in your life.
Not many girls your age think the same thing. My sister is two years younger than you and is already thinking about having a boyfriend and going out on a date. I've taught her that this is not the right way to go at her age, and taught her the dangers that await if she skips the most important levels in life. It is now up to her to follow my advice, but I would really hate to see her fail.
You continue what you're doing, ignore the negative comments and appreciate the positive ones, for they are your courage and straight. Study hard, be a good daughter, make your parents proud, make yourself proud, and you will be very glad you did the right thing. Bless you, girl!
2006-07-20 17:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have goals and values. Ur not about changing those two things for some boy. It's ok...in time it will all change, but when you do meet a boy for you...make sure you remember those goals and values! Don't ever forget about urself!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-20 17:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lady C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to care about what? what other people think? or studying and your family? I don't understand the question? um, I don't know why you have to care so much. ask your mom, I always do.
2006-07-20 17:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the hormonal changes to be over!
2006-07-20 17:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by K9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋