I want to tell my mom about what my step dad is doing but i am worried that she wont belive me?

Question

I am so confused. I want to get out of here but i am scared what would happen if i told the cops. I don't wan't to go to an foster home or any thing like that and i don't want to go live with my real father. so what would happen

hes says things like i know something that will get you off restriction then unzipps his pants.

Answer 1

first off sweet heart u are a victim of something very serios and seriously if u dont say anything someone on online will and trust me they can find out who u are,and what kind of mother wouldnt beleive something like that,U NEED TO TELL SOMEBODY,its really up to whether or not u ewant to deal with it or not stop it now before it gets more serios than him unzipping his pants,ive been a victim before and it only gets worse so trust me,
ps heres my email [e-mail] id love to discuss this with u

Answer 2

If you step father is touching you or doing sexual things you best tell your mother or if your mother has a best friend tell her and ask her to talk to your mom.. My daughter told the school councelors and they took her away from school and i didn't find out where she was for 3 days.. which made me mad.. I don't know if you are sexually active other wise but if you are it is a possibility that she won't believe you at first.. but she will come around if you aren't telling the whole world about it. and she will be able to keep the creep away from you.. If she won't do anything the only possibility for you is to go to the cops yourself .. And if you are going to do that. I hate to say this but do it right after he has a sexual contact with you so that there is proof to everyone that he is doing this and they can put him in jail.
for a very long time.. My daughters dad went to jail for 5 years.. I know that isn't long enough for what he is doing but it is a start and if he does go to jail make sure you go to his probation hearings so that the don't get out of there earlly.. know what i mean make him spend ever minute of his time.. No one should ever touch kids. You can always tell your dad and he can talk to you mom too. Remember you have two parents weather they are split up or not.. And he will help you out.. living with him is far better than where you are right now.. I know you will miss your mother but you won't have the step father touching you anymore.
hope everything works out for you..

Answer 3

Are you and your mother close? If you are being hurt and you told your mother I would hope she believes you....if you have proof of whatever it is he's doing you better go tell the cops or a counselor so he won't do anything to you or anyone else, that is if whatever he's doing is what you say.. Are you over age, an adult yet , because you won't be put in a home...but I really can't tell you unless I know what it is your talking about...if it's that bad talk to your priest, because you will get alot of responses that might not suit you on here..

Answer 4

i do not comprehend why that is interior the foodstuff section, yet, it benefits an answer. you want to bypass to the guidence counselor on your college and communicate with them about the priority, tell them what has been going on at abode. this can be a very undesirable situation, and regrettably it is not a uncommon situation. regrettably a tremendous kind of situations moms are so chuffed to have a 2d husband that they don't opt to lose the guy. they'll do some thing to maintain him, besides the actuality that if it skill ignorning issues that are stated by way of their own newborn. you may want to do some thing to face up for your self and get it on record someplace that you're being mistreated or it is going to easily bypass on. faster or later you willl might want to call interior the authorities to seize your stepfather in action, it is the only way that receives some thing through on your mom that there is a subject matter. keep on with it, do not enable him damage out with this, you should have a existence, you may want to get out of this example.

Answer 5

You need to tell you mother and give her a chance to leave him. If she doesn't, like it happens so many times, you will have to leave. My parents take foster children into their home. It's not perfect, but it's a lot better for all the children there. Are there other family members you can move in with, maybe Grandma and Grandpa, or an Aunt or Uncle?

Answer 6

If you and your mother have a good relationship, then please trust her and tell her. It will be hard for her to hear something bad about the man she married, but chances are good that she has some "sense" of something being wrong anyway. Let her react initially ... and just let her know how much this situation is hurting you.

If you don't have a good relationship with your mother, find someone else in authority that you can trust and tell them.

Please do not sacrifice yourself to this situation! You don't say how old you are, but I sense the confusion and fear in your question, and advise you to go, without hesitation, and tell someone in authority that you can trust. Today.

Any situation has to be better than being abused. Do not remain quiet ... and sweetie ... good luck!

Answer 7

Darling, you need to give more details..but as you haven't i would answer to my best because anything that involves him unzipping his trousers has got to be bad news. Tell you what,you've got 2 choices, i'll list them and explain the way you can go around acomplising it. First of all: MAKE YOUR MUM BELIEVE.You've got to set a trap for this stepdad you are talking about, ask your mum to trust you e.g let her pretend she is going out for the night but to come back, if she really loves you she should give you a chance,,just give it a go.
You could also get a tape recorder and record what he says at that time...talk him into saying what he does to you e.g ask him questions to get him to talk then go and let your mum listen to it,she is bound to believe you. As for where to get the tape and where to hide it :Borrow from your friends or save money and buy one yourself, and hide it in a close range so that the recording could be clear and precise..
If that doesn't work out or if it goes wrong the other choice is to GO TO THE COPS or else you would regret it for the rest of your life..evenworse it might destroy your whole childhood which would make it hard for you to move on in life. Don't be scared just do what you've got to do because this is your time to send him where he belongs..you need to be strong ,show him that he could do his dirty work on other girls but not on you and that he wouldn't get away with it either.If the worse comes to worse and you end up in a foster home or with your original father, at least it would be better than been abused by your stepdad over and over again.I know you might think it is easy for me to say this to you but you have got to try,you've got to fight...
...good luck

Answer 8

tell your mom!!
if you are afraid she won't believe you, maybe hide a tape recorder or if you have a cell phone that records, record the few things he says to you. at least you will have that as proof..

DO NOT do what he tells you... if necessary go to a friends house, another family member or someone you think can help you.

p.s. I am sorry to hear your mom is in the hospital. I hope she is doing much better and will come home soon.

Answer 9

Maybe you can find someone else that you can talk to who your mom trusts. Try to find another adult that you can trust that can also talk to your mom for you, and tell them. But definitely find a way to let your mom know what's going on. Your mom won't let you end up in a foster home; if anyone's going anywhere it will most likely be your step dad.

Answer 10

What he is doing and saying are wrong. He will take it further. Yes it is very scary but if it is allowed to continue he will think it is okay to do this and it is absolutly NOT okay. For the sake of you and your innocence please ask for help from anybody tell your best friends mom, your mom even if it is a hard subject because you are your mothers daughter and she will do anything you. Please say something to somebody do NOT be scared you are not alone and there are plenty of people willing to help you.