how do you resulve a fight you got in with your mom with out starting another one?

Question

we are always fighting and i try to apologize for it all but it just starts up another one. i have tryed cleaning taking her out to lunch but nothing good comes out of it all. i tryed everything i could think of to stop it all

Answer 1

Try doing what she asks.

And do what she has told you a thousand times, without having to be told.

That will do it.

Answer 2

Sometimes Mums get tired and cranky and get upset really easily.Tell her you don't want to fight with her, and ask what you can do to help her. Tell her you know you have your differences, but despite that she's the best Mum in the world and you love her to bits! If the argument somehow gets going again, say 'No, I'm not going to argue Mum, let's forget the past and just agree to differ'. Stay cool and try to be understanding.

Answer 3

BIG question to ask on here.
There are lots of factors that you couldn't possibly impart in this forum. Try this link...you can go into detail (you can use a made up name) and get advice from lots of ordinary people that have been throught the same thing.
Never was close to my Mum. Fell out big style and didn't speak for seven years but we're speaking now. Time changes us and I think we both mellowed with age lol
Hope you can resolve your issues

Answer 4

sometimes it better not to admit that ur wrong and apologise, sometimes its better to prevent the arguement full stop! arguements should be left for when things get right out of control, talk to each other, it makes a difference. Maybe u cant put right wat has happened, but u can prevent it from happening again.

Answer 5

Just do your own thing, and avoid her... When she is ready to talk, then tell her...

Answer 6

Say your sorry and give her a big hug..........dont let go......wait.....say it again.......then look into her eyes and say "Mum I love you forgive me..."........"Lets work this out".