My boyfriend is driving me crazy or is he Insane?

Question

My boyfriend Mark is always accusing me of talking to this dude i use to be friends with but he believes that im dating him.
The other day i told him that i would call him back because the phone was dead. Two hours later I called him and the phone was still low it charged just a little bit. He started an arguement with me saying that the phone wasnt charged because i was on the phone with my friend who i dont even talk to anymore.What is it with him? 10 points for best answer and high rank.

I realy love him though

Answer 1

He is threatened by the fact that you had this guy in your past that you were close to at one point. It may also be that he is doing something that he should not be doing and is accusing you because he knows that he is guilty. All I know is that if there is no trust there cannot be a relationship. You do not need the constant badgering and he is only going to help to push you away. You need to let him know what you feel because no one should have to deal with that type of stuff. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

He is just extremely scared and insecure, I had the same problem with a friend girl of mine where her bf didn't want her talking to me, despite the fact that I have a gf and I wasn't interested. He is afraid that this friend of yours knows more about you than he does, and that could give him (your friend) an advantage. As well he feels distance by there being someone else who know about you more than him. You need to let him know what he is unaware of, which is that somethings a friend will know, but he is your bf and there are things he knows that other people will never know. It is hard for a guy to thinkg of any other guy as friend, because in most cases (not necessarily in yours) these friends want to move in and be something more, he has to trust that you won't do anything against him.

Answer 3

Either this boyfriend of yours is horribly insecure, or he himself is cheating and deflecting his indiscretions onto you. It's the whole smoke & mirrors trick. Misdirection. He's making a mountain out of a molehill so you won't notice the real problem. If you want to work things out with Mark, you need to communicate face to face about this. And you shouldn't have to ditch your platonic guy friend because Mark says. You should try to encourage Mark to be friends with him too, or at the very least join you when you meet up with this friend so he can see he has nothing to be upset about (that is, if he's just insecure). You two are long overdue for a chat. Good luck.

Answer 4

It sounds to me like he is very insecure in the relationship. You can continue to reassure him and hope that in time he gets over it.

It has been my experience that guys like your boyfriend are insecure about themselves and expect that a girl is going to be unfaithful because somehow they are unworthy of her love. This is not a problem you can fix.

Try working on it and talking to him, but if it doesn't turn around soon, you may want to cut your losses and look for someone that is a bit more secure.

Good Luck.

Answer 5

Your boyfriend is the jealous type. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. I'm assuming by your words that there's nothing happening to make him jealous, so I'd ask him why he's jealous. Something in his past? An ex cheat on him? If he gives some lame line like "because I care about you", that's b.s. If he cares, he won't be jealous, he'll understand that you talk to guys other than him.

Answer 6

Insecure he probably was mistreated in a past relation he may get aggresive it's best to leave him trust and communication should be #1 in a relationship if he can't respect you respect yourself and move on if he's like this now imagine 5yrs down the road he could become violent most women abused it starts from jealousy

Answer 7

My advice would be to find a boyfriend who doesn't make false accusations. Your relationships will never work as long as there are other people involved. The phone stuff is petty, but it will grow into a bigger problem.

Answer 8

properly, he's likely top. At 33 he's conscious her properly adequate, I'ld say. He ought to face his floor in spite of the indisputable fact that and let her locate out that he's living with you - he's made this determination and may no longer be attempting to conceal it it truly is cowardly. positive she'll likely let him have it with both barrels yet when he doesn't a thanks to take it now, how about later if and once you've toddlers and he or she doesn't approve of their upbringing. you're in for a demanding street having her as a mom in regulation. the only thanks to deal including her will be with a not basic backbone, calm mood, and per chance a 20 foot pole.

Answer 9

it seems that he's really jealous of that guy.. sometimes when you love someone so mmuch you become obsessed and scared of losing them.. unless he just doesn't have much self confidence and has been through relationships before where he got hurt.. try to find a place he's comfortable and choose the best time to talk about it.. talking about stuff is what makes relationships last long.. good luck!

Answer 10

ok...you need to seriously tell him that you are not talking to this guy anymore. once you have done that, then that is all you can do. if he continues this behavior then it just sounds as if boyfriend is just trying to do something petty and blatant (on purpose) like pick an argument because if the phone was dead, who would pick an argument over that? it just doesn't make any sense. you will need to watch him because it sounds like he is just trying to find an easy way to break it off.