i just can`t figure it out if you`re gonna do that sh*t just dump em don`t cheat on em! If you can`t tell i`ve been cheated on by three of my g/fs
2006-07-20 09:34:41 · 13 answers · asked by MobileSuitPilot21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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If you have been cheated on by 3 of your girlfriends, then it is time to ask yourself some important quesitons:
1. Are you picking the same girl again and again?
2. Do you always pick the girl that is emotionally unavailable?
3. Do you realize that when someone tells you that they have a problem with loving deeply, that there is NOTHING you can do to change them?
4. Do you relaize that no matter how wonderful YOU are in a relationship, that you can't make a person suddenly realize they can love, and that they should therefore love you? The answer is, you can't.
On the first few dates, you should not let your heart out too soon, and if you see red-flags that this person is unable to love and committ (which is usually revealed by their dating history)...
and they seem selfish and seem to not care anything about things about you...
then look for someone else.
You want to KEEP SEARCHING until you find a woman who is "available" emotionally; and ready to commit to a relationship. A person with the same values that you have < NO EXCUSES about fidelity and committment,etc.
Only give your heart in small increments equal to what your date/mate is giving too, and you will do well.
I wish you love
stw
;)
2006-07-20 09:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated so not everyone cheats. Nice respectable girls don't cheat. If I have tried everything I can do to make a relationship work and it just isn't working I would never cheat just to end the relationship. It's hurtful and disrespectful and there is never an excuse to cheat on your partner. You both must always have good communication and treat each other with respect if you want your relationship to remain work. It sounds like those weren't part of those relationships so you need to look at the type of girls you have been choosing.
2006-07-20 09:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyedgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been accused of it. changed into no longer some thing to it, wasn't dishonest. She turned right into a lil bit jumpy and is a lifeless nerve-racking man or woman. yet thus far been thoroughly honest with one yet another. So, i doubt very a lot so it may ensue. yet, the girl i'm with won't be able to keep a secret, no longer to point a huge one like that! it may come out ultimately. And wither or no longer i'd supply her yet another probability is a diverse tale.
2016-10-15 00:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone cheats and it's not about necessity...it's about opportunity and attraction.....choice...then consequence. Unfortunately, you've been on the wrong end of a few choices. The bright side is that they were your G/F versus your wife. Weed that garbage out now, and find one that will take the high road in the future.
2006-07-20 09:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u cheat on me .. I leave .. thats a simple solution .. i wouldnt want u back again becz u will cheat again and again .. whats worth to enjoy a healthy relationshiop
people cheat because they dont understand what Commitment and LOVE means .. simple! DID ADAM CHEAT on his WIFE, EVE? I will let u decide!
2006-07-20 09:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by sunnya4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the girls that cheated on you need to get a life, not all girls are like that, you just gotta keep your eyes open for the good ones.
2006-07-20 09:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude not everyone cheats, youve just been dealt a bad hand so far.
2006-07-20 09:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what im sayin!! There's no point to it!! Those girls were bitches and need to get their *** kicked!! Sry you had to go through that!! i did too so dont worry!! you're not alone!! but yeah, i havent done it and dont plan on doing it!! EVER!! its just wrong!! SOME PEOPLE are just so dumb!! (not everyone does it)
2006-07-20 09:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by *Ivette* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us have insatiable taste that can't be cured but i know from experience there are good honest ppl out there stay honest your time will come
2006-07-20 09:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're losers. Not everyone cheats.
2006-07-20 09:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dwight D J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋