why do men cheat when they have a girlfriend or wife?

Question

if u are commited to a female, why do u find others soo attractive u have sex with them. must it be more than just admiration?

Answer 1

Hello virgorett,

It's not about better looks, it's about the sex. Guys are just like women. We like getting attention. We like thinking that we are still desirable. Especially when our wives or girlfriends don't seem to be interested in us anymore.

And guys NEED sex. It's just not, "Oh wouldn't it be lovely if we had sex sometime this month?" We need sex like we need to eat, or we need to urinate. If our girlfriends or wives are withholding it, or are not in the mood this year, or are too busy thinking about everyone else except their boyfriends or husbands, is it any wonder why men skip out on them?

Also, it's those nice sexual techniques that wives or girlfriends feel that they don't need to do to their guys anymore. The fact that you did it before, and don't do it anymore is a double insult to us, and well, there are women out there that still don't mind doing those things that we like.

Well, that's basically it. I hope that I've enlightened you a bit. Now go out and get your boyfriend/husband back.

--Rick

Answer 2

Because guys don't have feelings, they just have egos. I've yet to find a guy that is straight and faithful. It doesn't even matter if you look like a supermodel and are terrific in bed, they still go to other women because they need to BOOST their egos.

Pathetic, oui?

Answer 3

The reason women do.I don't know.When you see someone with a girl,then you are going all over him and make sweetness and stuff.When he's going out with friends,you aren't stare at all.Probably it's jealousy among women that you are better than the one she has.

Answer 4

The same reasons women do. It works both ways honey.

Answer 5

I wish my ex wife would tell me why she cheated. I was faithful to her.

Answer 6

It is probably due to boredom, and the mystery of the unknown.