I went 2 this block party the other day and i saw this boy that i would always talk 2 on the phone but never saw since las years block party. Anyways he made it clear b4 this day that he was bi & even showed up with a boyfriend. Or a "pity boyfriend" as he puts it. But he would act gay [u kno say things like "I'm a dyme (only girls are dymes!) and can juke (which only girls do)". Plus he got a tongue ring. i think it's sexy but my cuzins jus thought it was scary. By the end of the night i actually kissed him & we was holdin hands. Now i'm jus confused. Please give good answers
2006-07-20 09:22:28 · 10 answers · asked by ~*La boricua mami*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 16 by the way and a high school junior. No i am not bi. o yea by the way i'm a virgin. another thing his friend wasn't that cute anyway. These answers are makin; me think tho so thanx for the ansers & keep them comin'. thanx
2006-07-20 09:41:41 · update #1
O yea even tho i'm not bi i'm not gay either. I'm straight. lol 4got to add that.
2006-07-20 09:42:45 · update #2
You are far to young to be worrying about this type of issue. Ask your mother or father for advice. They should respect your curiosity and honesty. Maybe offer your friendship to this person, you sound fairly intelligent and tuned in to what is going on with people. He sounds like a person with some problems and maybe could use your support. I would caution you that people like that can be emotional vampires or worse, so be careful and avoid drama. {Easy for me to say right ?} He sounds focused on sex (w/ M or F-and what male isn't at that general age-err not with males normally) You are interested in "boys" obviously. Which is also totally normal. My ex-GF had a child at your age and it was a disaster, don't make that mistake.
Also, make sure you demand any boys wear condoms if you are going to engage in sexual activity with them. Sex will be there for another 40 or more years for you. No need to rush or to give in to peer pressure.
Enter...out.
2006-07-20 09:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well can you deal with the fact that he is bi. And that it seems that he sways more on the side of liking men from what you said. Also can you deal with having not only female but male competition. I think that it is a sticky situation to begin with and to continue on with this would be asking for trouble. You are letting your lust for him get in the way of your logic. I say walk away now!!!
2006-07-20 16:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you really want to be with someone who likes both sexes at some point he will want you join with him and his boyfriend or girlfriend one partner will never be enough and you always have doubts in the back,back,back of your mind. Sounds more like a head on collision waiting to happen. You just will never be able to trust him unless your bi-- this simply will not work out
2006-07-20 16:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen hear with all respect for the guy community a Bi male his just gay. Sorry its true you can try but it is pointless.Unless you like teaching fish to fly have fun
2006-07-20 16:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by omenus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never have the equipment to make him happy if he is bi. Do you understand what it means he likes it in the butt. How can you live with the fact that your man likes to kiss other men. More power to you for being open to it I guess. I would never date anyone that way.
2006-07-20 16:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be a good idea to continue your relationship with him. He's obviously confused about what he really wants, and in the end, its just going to hurt you. If i were you I would try to find a good guy that would be committed to you and know he loves you. Not a guy who can't even decide if he likes guys or girls.
2006-07-20 16:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a simular situation. I don't think that u should continue dating him but should at least give him a chance as friends. Hope this helped.
2006-07-20 22:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Rocawear mami 06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're lining up to be an AIDS poster child. Safe sex only is a good rule, but especially here.
2006-07-20 16:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by Iggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl go for it! Shoot if he's bi then that just means all the better chance you'll get to do HIM and HIS friend!!!! WOOOHOOO!
2006-07-20 16:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is blind
if is love you have to worry only to enjoy that
if you can handle it...good lucky
2006-07-20 16:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by why? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋