Ladies only, could you please read and answer this?

Question

OK, I think to meet the right person you need to know about them. I love having fun and goofing off and don't like a girl that is too serious. Can I get some feedback on these things?
1) I feel like all women deserve to have, the door opened, the chair pulled out, the offer to have the meal paid for....and other similar things....is this too old fashioned?
2) I think it is okay to compliment a girl on her body and her looks and also (after dating a while) tell a joke that is a compliment about thier nice features (no matter what they are) as long as she is comfortable with that. Is that wrong?
4) I enjoy dancing with a girl at a club and only want to date a girl that can let loose and shake it a little. Would you say that is fair?
5)Even though I am just 18, but my pay, my car, and clothes are really nice (computer job), but I don't want her to brag about them or like me just for those things. Is that fair of me?

So I'd love to know if there is any girl out there like me.

Answer 1

Yes,but maybe not your age. You are very mature for your age,heck most men MY age,aren't that mature,lol. Seriously,take your time,it will come,don't rush it,and you'll meet the right one.

Answer 2

1) I recently went out with a guy that opened the car door for me, always opens store doors for me etc, and I absolutely loved it. There is nothing wrong with chivalry and it adds to your overall character! I believe a woman can still be independent, free thinking and want equality with men and still allow a man to be a man! Good for you!
2) There is nothing wrong with complimenting a woman on her body, as long as she is comfortable with it. The question is, when do you or how do you find out? Do you throw the (so called compliment) out and wait for the reaction or do you ask for permission to mention body compliment??? I would say to use caution here because some women tend to read into things and perhaps think you mean the opposite. Also, they may tend to think that you are looking at other womens body parts as well!!!
3) This is your own personal need but I wonder if you are limiting yourself! Who knows, maybe the girl for you is a wallflower just waiting for a nice slow dance!
4) If you tell your girl that you want to share your career info with her but that you want to keep it confidential, then she should comply. You will know soon enough if this girl is with because of who you are not what you do and how much you make! You seem like a smart fellow! Good Luck! PS....You are young and have a good time ahead to get the right girl. Just don't hurt anyone to satisfy your ego!!! Take care. Zazalive

Answer 3

I think that all of your answers are the right way to go. About the girl that moves in a certain way and can dance or whatever - if thats what you look, thats what you should look for. And about opening the door, letting women go first,etc. - this is not old fashioned and can really win a girls heart because it is very respectful and shows that you care. So I think you are on the right track, and its okay if you have good things going for you and tell her about it - this will actually turn her on and I dont think you sound like the type of guy that will just brag to bring somebody else down. So I hope that helps!

Answer 4

I think these are all reasonable.

1) Most women like men who are chivalrous. But if you start out that way in a relationship, you have to keep it up. This is what you will hear most women complain about...that the man "used to do it" but doesn't anymore.

2) Most women love compliments, but again...if you are going to start dishing them out, keep it up. Otherwise, the woman will think you've lost interest. Jokes are fine, as long as you know what she is sensitive about and don't joke about it (like she thinks her butt is too big and you feed on that).

3) Most women would like a guy who dances with them, but don't want a man who will "shake it" with other women at the club right in front of her.

4) You can find girls who aren't "impressed" by this stuff. Probably someone who is independent, would be somewhat better.

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

1. Some women don't like to be this helpless. It's nice to be attended to in public, but to be opening doors and pulling out chairs at home is too much fuss.

2. Yah it's okay to compliment or even give constructive criticism like say, you know I really don't think that eye shadow flatters your eyes, I like it the other way better.

3. Where is # 3?

4. I've met really cool non-dancers. This is a silly criteria.

5. No one likes someone who brags. And of course, your should be liked for yourself and not your possessions.

I am sure there's someone out there like you.

Answer 6

I'm sure there are plenty of nice young ladies out there that would love all the things that you are and that you want. You just have to stop looking. I mean, it always seems toyou happen when you are not expecting it to happen (meeting the girl of your dreams). Live your life, love your friends. Have a good time when you go out. I mean, really have fun. Like if tomorrow was your last day on earth. Women are attracted to a man that seems to have it all together and that seems to be sure of himself and knows what he wants out of life. If you go out and show your playful side, you will have the women flocking to you like a semi-annual sale at Victoria's Secret. Hope this helps. good luck and God bless.

P.S. Don't be surprised if an older woman is attracted to you. You seem to be more mature than most 18 year olds.

Answer 7

It sounds like you want to treat a lady like a lady in the first section, but then you desire a trollop of a woman... Why would you want a woman that "lets loose and shakes it a little"? She sounds rather sleazy to me. You can't have a sleazy woman and expect her to be a good person too. I think you need to understand that if you want a good woman, she will not take kindly to you joking about her body parts and will probably not be willing to "shake it" on the dance floor. If you want a sleazy woman, you won't find much love there.

Answer 8

1) You'd better treat me right or all bets are off.
2) You'd better compliment me or all bets are off
3 or 4 depending on how you count) Your dating requirements are yours alone, no one can tell you its right or wrong. If you like to dance, you should probably be with someone who likes the same things!
5) Of course. No one wants to be liked just for material things. Perhaps you should hold off on showing off your money or job until she gets to know you and you know shes with you for you and not your "things".

Answer 9

I think you know what you want. The search finding what you want takes time. Do not settle for anything less than the woman who brings a smile to a face. And whatever you do don't "spin your wheels" with some chick who doesn't measure up.

Answer 10

WOW i think that u r unbeliveably amazing, i hav never even heard of any one who is so nice and polite, i hav 2 say that any girl that goes out w/ is super lucky, u sound like a great guy