2006-07-20 08:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by eight beers 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
My brother died 2 years ago and i am stil lnot over. I will never get over it in my own special way and i don't suggest you feel the need to "get over it." Sweety, take as long as you need to get through it but dont' let it get in the way of your normal life. If it is getting in the way of your normal life, i would talk to a family member or a close friend about what you're feeling. Talking about it really really helps. Create the opportunity to talk about your sister if you have to.
2006-07-20 08:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by IM 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My mother passed away almost 6 years ago. I was a mama's boy as they say. It seems like yesterday that we lost her.
My best advise is to think about the past and all the positive times you shared. Realize that you were blessed to have her in the time you did. She will always be with you through memories. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about her. I think about the past that we shared and I smile. Of course I sometimes get angry that she is gone, but then I realize I would have rather had her im my life for that period than not have her in my life at all.
Loss is tough, but I gainded a lot from her. And of course, I always think the people that we've lost are watching over us.
2006-07-20 09:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by brian l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk, a lot, about everything surrounding her death to whoever you can. I had a son die in 2002, I did go to a shrink for a little bit, but not long, but talking about it to my friends helped more than anything. You'll never get over it though, it'll always be with you sweetheart. Write about it. Write to her in a notebook helps too. If possible, when you're upset about something or about her death go to her grave site and cry to her, you will feel better after wards. I wish you luck and I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-07-20 08:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by unique14sure 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will never totally get over something like that. I lost my father 46 years ago and there are still times when I wish I could talk to him. I know I am not being of much comfort, but never forget your sister, recall the good times, and do the best you know how to get on with your own life. You will be rewarded for your effort.
2006-07-20 08:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can help you get over it are the two Homeopathic Remedies AURUM MET 30C and NATRIUM MUR 30C take both together half hour before or after meals you will start feeling lots better in two or three doses take them for at least 3 days and let me know about your progress.
Take Care and God Bless
2006-07-20 10:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your family and friends about all the good times you had together. My grandpa died two years ago and I know that I will never get over it.
2006-07-20 08:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could talk with your family or partner. I think it would be great if you set up some kind of memorial dedicated to her. Maybe you could set up aome kind of annual event to benefit an effort to put a stop to cause which took your sister.
Generally, do something creative and beneficial to the community in rememberance of her, and keep doing it.
2006-07-20 08:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds trite but finding a support group that allows you to talk about your feelings amy very well be the very best way to deal with it... support from people who've experienced the same thing can be invaluable
2006-07-20 08:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found through personal experience that Jesus is the answer to everything. Talk to HIm.
2006-07-20 08:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by Debhere100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont hold anything in be open and mourn for her. you will get over it. someday. its hard though and tough
2006-07-20 08:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by ♥BUD or BUD LIGHT♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋