ok here is the situation I was with my boyfriend and we actually met online but anyways we havent known each other that long but he loves everything about me so one night he tells me that he loves me all i said was no you dont and i think i made him feel bad but its just i dont want to use the L word if i am not sure about it, but he still tells me that he loves me and i just never say it back because i feel its too soon way to soon. What should i do because i do like him very much and my feeling are getting stronger and the way things are goign i can get to love him i know this but what should i do in the mean time.
2006-07-20 08:24:31 · 3 answers · asked by florlatinspice0825 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stand your ground!
If you arent ready to say it than don't, i think it is admirable of you to not give in and say the L word when you are not ready. I am sure it must be awkward when he says it and you dont say it back. Maybe just pay him a compliment when he says it to change the subject in a good way.
PS i love you
2006-07-20 08:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Joey W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to take things slow.. say that you really like him and really care for him but you dont say i love you easily only when u rly mean it..so tell him when he first hears it from you to be sure that it's really a love thing ;P Dont worry about it too much..
2006-07-20 15:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, tell him you understand that he loves you but it is too soon for you and you want to know more about him before you feel that level of comfort.
2006-07-20 15:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋