I've been loving a guy for more than a year but he has a girlfriend already, I tried my best to forget him and I am being in a relationship but yet I can't forget his love. What am I supposed to do?
2006-07-20 08:24:18 · 8 answers · asked by myfl_a 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop for a minute and think about what it is about this past love that has U so "gaa-gaa" over him. Does this new guy posses that but U have yet to realize it??
Sometimes we tend to hold on too things for all the wrong reasons.
My advice: Drop this new guy, U arent being fair to him if Ur heart lies with someone else. He doesn't deserve that, he obviously likes U and U'll only end up hurting him if U continue this.
Next, forget about this "love" and MOVE ON. He apparently has, what R U waiting on??? Do U wanna continue to be his "doormat"??
U deserve better than that for Urself. Be by Urself for a while and find out what U want. And then think of what U can do to achieve that. Self-Preservation ......... There is no value on Ur worth so stop letting this old flame put one on U.
As bad as it may seem if this guy wanted U he'd be with U NOT HER.
Good Luck dear and think about what I said. U CAN DO BETTER.
2006-07-20 08:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by HeartsOnFire 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart just forget him. Life is too short to be worrying about what ifs? You need to concentrate on your own future, you know theres an old saying - plenty more fish in the sea! I'm sure the right fella is out there just waiting for you just give it time, you neednt look for him when the time is right your lovely man will present himself and you will know that he is the one.
Good luck sweetheart, don't worry trust me he'll be there. xxx
2006-07-20 08:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u kil ur self
R u crazy?
this is a usual problemo found in girls
dey go behind a committed men like engaged or married
leavin bachelors alone behind
get a life move on
2006-07-20 09:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by hauntingskull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is GET OVER IT!!!!, he's got a girl and youre in a relationship already...
2006-07-20 08:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by Incredible! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything takes time to get over, but the only problem is there's no set amount of time....Good luck to you!
2006-07-20 08:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life, friends that you dont sleep with, a job, confidence in your self to be a lone. try look at your self as a real person who you like
if you do these thing you wont be doing such stupid things in your life
2006-07-20 08:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by bkbarile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on enjoying him... But realise that it has no future unless you are both single and able to persue it...
2006-07-20 08:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it. gees!
2006-07-20 08:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by trafficer21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋