I have 5, no they aren't different fathers I happen to be happily married and financially stable enough to keep them all. What is wrong with that?
2006-07-20 08:24:03 · 32 answers · asked by brdbeyondBelief 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
people talk like that because they are jealous about what you have. As the mother of five, being a blended not all mine biologically, I get this all the time also. Especially from my family. Those that are unhappy seek to make everybody else around them unhappy as well. They think you must be crazy or stupid because they know that inside themselves they could not handle our job. They would end up killing themselves or the children they deal with.
2006-07-20 08:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone knows the more kids you have the crazier you must be. Let's face it, 5 kids can't give you much time to yourself or private time with your mate. It isn't that people think you are a whore (although, I would honestly think you had a problem if you had 5 kids and 6 daddies) it is rare, however, for a family that large to not be dysfunctional. If you are all happy, healthy and making ends meet then tell people to screw off. My husband and I are having a baby for the first time in 13 years and even though BOTH our teenagers look like their dad as much as they look like me, people STILL think this is a second marriage and the older kids aren't his. Who cares? They're a$$holes.
And personally, I still think one kid was enough. I love 'em but they are difficult, expensive and they make it damn hard to be selfish.
2006-07-20 08:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by 0000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People think you're a whore because you have 5 kids? People actually heard you had 5 kids and called you a whore? I find this extremely hard to believe. I have never in all my life met anyone who would ever call the mother of 5 children a whore.
2006-07-20 08:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know anyone who thinks a married women having children is a whore. I certainly don't think there is anything wrong -as you said, you are happily married and you can afford to care for everyone. Then have as many as you want - there is something to be said about large families - everyone has to learn to do their part and responsibility is a must! Have fun having lots of babies!
2006-07-20 09:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by pammy_6201 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who would think that you're a whore if you're in a happy marriage and taking care of your children. That doesn't make you a whore. A whore is someone who has 5 kids by 5 different men and no husband.
2006-07-20 08:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have great respect for you. Times have changed from families having 12 brothers and sisters to just 1 or 2. Who cares what those losers think? They have no reason to think you are a whore.
2006-07-20 08:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow people are horrible! There is nothing wrong with having five kids. God Bless you! Cuz I grew up with 4 of us in the house, and my poor parents! I would love that many someday, but right now, I just have a 6 month old. If you are able to afford that many, more power to you!! Congrats!
2006-07-20 14:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by klh841 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect you for having a large family and being able to stay home and take care of them! If I could afford it, I'd start my own football team (already have two boys, lol). Most people get upset probably because society has told us that we're supposed to have 2.1 children or whatever the statistics are. I say if you can support them financially and mentally, more power to you! Large families are cool. :)
2006-07-20 14:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thier is nothing wrong and as long as you can support them and take care of them I think it is great that you have so many.
5 kids is not as uncommon now a days as you think and many have more then that like I was watching on the discovery channel not to long ago about a woman who ahd 15 kids and yes they were all her biological children.
I could not immagine giving birth 15 times
2006-07-20 08:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Chrissy_Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five children are cool! I have some mates, and they have just had their 5th! Personally, I think they are great parents, and the sacrifices they have had to make have made them better people than many of the selfish no-child couples I know! I would definitely spend time with them, rather than others, because it is not all about the latest thing they have bought, the latest person they have done over to advance themselves. You rock, and I hope to have a few myself one day!
Tell anyone who calls you that to p*ss off and die! Haha! (although not in front of your kids!)
2006-07-20 08:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋