i want to make a guy i really like like me back with out admitting my fellings. so i was thinking i could make him jealous... but how do i do that with out there being another guy
2006-07-20 08:20:54 · 30 answers · asked by bria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes making a man jealous will back fire
Be careful cause you could make him completely turn his back
2006-07-20 08:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by roonie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, making a guy jealous isn't the way to make a guy like you. In fact, most guys if they don't like you already, won't get jealous because theres nothing to be jealous over...catch my drift.
The best way to make a guy like you is for him to get to know you. And if he doesn't like you then, its his loss, and you move on. Now if he already knows you, well the best thing to do is leave hints that you like him...get touchy feeling, like every now and again stroke his arm, offer massages (this is if he really knows you) smile alot, and well invite him out with you and only you....he will pick it up quickly. The other easier way out of this is just to tell him. See what happens... Good luck.
2006-07-20 15:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever watched the movie Clueless w/ Alicia Silverstone? Well there is a scene where her character is trying to get this guy she likes to like her by sending herself flowers and chocolates and showing a little more skin, all the while not glancing his way, ever. She laughs and giggles and talks to everyone except him. In turn this drives him to talk to her and get to know more about her. It worked , except the guy ended up being gay. So
2006-07-20 15:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is a major part of a relationship do you really think he will be jealous or think he will even like you after you go through all this?Put your feelings out there and if he likes you then he will put his out there as well then you will but be on the same page
2006-07-20 15:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one find out if he likes you through a friend or something. and if you really want to make him jealous then you could flirt with his friends in front of him but that will make him mad and not like you as much so you should just find out if he likes you and flirt with him
2006-07-20 15:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games, that's stupid and you will end up looking really bad in the long run. Just go out and say it. It's not as hard as you think and if he says no, it's not the end of the world.
2006-07-20 15:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be wasting your time liking a guy that doesn't like you. There could be some other guy that you are missing out on b/c you are stuck on a guy thats not even looking your way. i say forget about him cuz hes not even thinking twice about you. You deserve better than that.
2006-07-20 15:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by bonyblack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are interested in 'playing the game' then just keep yourself busy. acting like you aren't interested in pursuing will usually get a guys attention... making guys jealous just pisses them off and makes it more of a challenge, rather than something they WANT to pursue... and be careful... he has feelings too.
2006-07-20 15:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Alynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you are into playing games instead of just being yourself and being honest
why would you want to do that???
try talking to him about your feelings, why would you not want him to know how you feel and then try to make him jealous instead of finding out his feelings?
not a good way to start any good relationship.
be cool....
2006-07-20 15:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play with guys' feelings to soothe your own. You won't like it one bit when it happens to you.
You really need some help understanding healthy relationships. Unless you wise up, you're in for some really rocky times.
2006-07-20 15:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋