i dont do it, but i see a LOT of girls that have some really bad relationships but they LOVE the guy that treats them bad, i dont get it...
2006-07-20 08:03:27 · 24 answers · asked by RENE H 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont mean that the bf hits them, but you can see that it is a bad relationship
2006-07-20 12:51:33 · update #1
Women are fascinated by men that they don't know how to control. Try turning away from a kiss at the last moment to (for example) tell your cat to get off the table. Or act like you don't care about her half the time. Or do something nice for her, and then instead of asking her out just wish her a nice day and walk away.
Here's what's going on. You and she are engaging in a sort of unwritten contract negotiation, in which she will act in certain ways to please you while you act in certain other ways to please her. Like any buying and selling deal, each party wants to make a good bargain, wants to get as much as they can in exchange for as little cost as possible.
The law of supply and demand says that if your trading partner knows that you want something really, really bad, their price for providing it for you will go way, way up. You don't want that. So don't let her know. Keep her guessing.
Is that a bad thing to do? Well, maybe. But it's an OKAY thing to do, whether it's bad or not, if she's doing it to you first. If she does it, then you MUST do it, or you'll end up paying so much to keep her that you'll regret it.
2006-07-20 08:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by David S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its becuase even as u call and textual content females each and everything you do not provide them the prospect to imagine of u and bypass over you, and in many circumstances they lose interest of listening to an similar ingredient over and yet all over again exceptionally the complements. i pick to be supplement even as i'm least watching for it bcos if u do all of it the time i'd imagine that its no longer authentic and per chance doing so purely get me in route of u which will instead lead me to getting a procedures away to you. yet when u look propose like no longer calling or texting decrease back, i'd imagine that u dont like me anymore, if i question why it is occurring and gave no valid reason yet nevertheless proceed, i'd imagine that u've were given interest on somebody else and then now needs be to chase u. If i'm getting the concept u are searching for a chase i am going to provide up contacting u, and if i wait better for u contact me first and u did not, then it potential to me that u r no longer fascinated. Then i am going to start up searching for someone else.
2016-12-02 00:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by nourse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? Put as much distance as possible between you and those kind of women and you'll be happier for it.
Men and women have many strange issues that they try to work out in relationships--just make sure you're not one of them.
(They do it because that what they think that's what love is. To say it another way, they experience the feeling of love when they get familiar, but bad, treatment, and they have the mixed up idea that love is a feeling--as opposed to love being far more than just feelings.)
2006-07-20 08:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Pepper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't like to be treated bad! I'm a girl and guys should respect that! I don't know why the other girls allow themselves to get so low and let the men control them and treat them like slaves. I think I'm worth a little more than that!
2006-07-20 08:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like to be treated with care...although some women do except and like being treated like crap...they think if the guy doesn't argue and fight with them that they don't love them...Their twisted and they probably encountered something that makes them perceive love in that way...
2006-07-20 08:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't but I guess there are some that do, I think they like the drama and the attention they get from other people telling them they could do so much better.
2006-07-20 12:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey I've just tried to treat my GF as bad as possible and now she loves me more for that, thank you.
2015-01-27 20:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Rati 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get it either. if a guy hits a girl and theyre not in a relationship, they run a mile. but when they are...wtf?
2006-07-20 08:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by add_uk_2k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no we dont like to be treated badly....we just like a man to have a back bone and to stand up for him self...we also liked to feel like you care so be alittle protective with us...after all we're suppose to be "your special girl"...so treat us like a million dollar diamond
2006-07-20 08:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Babygirl000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GURLS DON'T LIKE TO BE TREATE D BAD, THERE JUST IN THAT BAD RELLTIONSHIP BECAUSE THEY LOVE THAT PERSON SO MUCH, AND WANT TO GIVE THAT PERSON ANOTHER CHANCE. SO NO THEY NO THEY DON'T
2006-07-20 08:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by alyson h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋