hi, i'm from mexico and she is from chicago, i met her during her vacations,she came to juarez mexico with her family and we met at this lil store her family own where i work, we become good friends and i kiss her in a moment, after that things turn diferent we wantted to be with each other all the time, she is in chicago now but she will come soon before she get to school. She didn't like to come bafore we spent her hole vacations together, when she had to go back to chicago she cryed so much. i think she is comming to see me, but my doubt is ,can this work?she is studyng so far from here and i haven't gone there to the USA and here things are so difficult i have to save much to take her to a place, and she can do almost anything she want but incredibly she still call me almost everyday. the time is short but i haven't known someone like her she is so good to me. could i rent an apartment
to live close to her and pay it myself? and could this be a good dessition? i really like her.
2006-07-20 07:59:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well... long term relationships can be hard.... but in the end can be very rewarding if you are both in love. and trust me i really really really think that she likes you a lot a lot. she is really happy to talk to you and can't wait to hear your voice.... as for that apartment.... that is up to you... but you really have to think about it. and whatever decision you make.... will be ok with her. so long as you are happy.
2006-07-20 17:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Tigger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, will you go the extra mile for love? I'm in a similar situation. And the truth is, absence makes the heart grow fonder. But it's not easy being in a long distant relationship. So the question i asked myself: Is he the one i want to spend the rest of my life with? Can i imagine having kids and growing old with him someday?(Not now, but eventually) My answer was NO. What is yours? If you think she's the one.. what are you waiting for? Plus it would be an adventure. But think with your head, not your heart. Because if you decide to go and things don't end up the way you imagined. Then what?
2006-07-20 15:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends, it is a big risk moving away especially in a different country with different culture. Look for a job in her area before you make the decision to move to be close to her. Good Luck! Long distance relationships are hard, but if you really want to make it work both of you will.
2006-07-20 15:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by webwench2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just go for it it seams like you two are in love now go get miss charming
2006-07-20 15:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
become self-sufficient first. then comes next.
2006-07-20 15:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋