Ok theres this girl that I like at work and we got e-mailing (cause shes in a different department) and we got talking about alsorts of things and then the conversation got more personal like she was talking about her family etc she gave me her phone number and I got a little drunk and sent her a message saying that I like her more than I should and she sent one back saying its too soon to tell. So I asked her out today and she said she honestly didnt know if anything would happen but shed like to get to know me better and that shed go out with me after work and stuff.
Thing is when we actually meet face to face we hardly talk and its like shes ignoring me or maybe shes just nervous thats why I suggested that we meet outside of work.
The other thing is she has a problem and she says it isnt me but wont tell me about it all that I have said is that she dosent have to go through it alone and Ill always be there for her if she needs me.
Does she like me or not?
2006-07-20 07:58:52 · 14 answers · asked by atticusblack19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably she does, she might just be on the shy side. As a girl yeah, ill advice that you get to know her well first. Forget all about the dating part for a while make her get used to you, asin free with you. Infact you might not call her as often but still make sure you contact her.
I believe when she gets used to you as a friend she'ld have no problem opening up to you.
2006-07-20 08:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Incredible! 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
First of all, be very careful emailing while you are at work. Most company's have a way to read the email that you send while at work, or the IM...so be very careful of your content. As for her having nothing to say when you did meet...sounds like you didn't hit it off...She has a problem...maybe her problem is a boyfriend or a husband. Don't tell someone you hardly know that you will always be there for them...you are setting yourself up for such disappointment...and that statement will not make her like you. I think she may like you as a work companion but not much more.
2006-07-20 08:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by irishME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has some problems that she needs to get cleared up. I know that you like her, but don't get involved with a girl who says she has a problem, but won't talk about it. You might just have to be her friend for now (stop taking her out-who pays by the way) and let her get her life together. If you're still around then you can pursue it again. However, don't tell her that you will be waiting for her, just be her friend for now.
As for whether she like you or not, I'm not sure that she even knows the answer to that question.
Good luck
2006-07-20 08:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably just shy.. im the same way when i meet new people. Just keep telling her that you're there to listen and make sure she knows u like her as more than a friend. If she doesnt warm up to u within 3 weeks or so then just break things off and look for someone new
2006-07-20 08:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're you and which will under no circumstances change. in my view , i'd want a guy that had some thoughts .yet there is someone obtainable for you . purely keep searching. i did not cry even as ppl I loved died... no longer that i did not care.... I purely knew there became no longer some thing i am going to do ya understand. So I kinda understand. Having stated all that .. I cried like a toddler even as My guy informed me that very last nighttime ( you responded my question lol )
2016-12-02 00:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by nourse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if she is considering you as a boyfriend but doesn't want to be pressured, as she hasn't yet figured out exactly how she feels or what she wants to do yet.
I may be jumping to the wrong conclusion here but I think her "problem" may be that she is sexually inexperienced (or, at least, perhaps *feels* like she is in comparison to what she *thinks* may be expected of her).
If you keep communicating as friends (with no pressure), you may find that things develop gradually anyway. Once she's more relaxed in your company, you can hint that you'd like her to take things further by getting just a little closer and seeing how she reacts.
2006-07-20 11:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by CJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably but something is holding her back maybe she thinks its too soon to tell you her problems. why not just become friends and then see if anything progresses at a later date
2006-07-20 08:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by roundtree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am something like that girl,the thing is in my case is that she is not ready to go into something like that.most girls like to know a person well before she step into a relationship.maybe she dont want to get her heart broken.take it slow with her and she will tell u if she like when the time is right
2006-07-20 08:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems like she wants attention?its a hard one,i think you should take a step back. still stay in contact but not as often if she likes you you'll soon know about it.
2006-07-20 09:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep talkin to her and tell her that u like her n ask her if she likes u if she does go to a park n buy a snowcone n sit on swings n talk JUST BE UR SELF!!!!!
2006-07-20 08:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋