I am so ready for Parting and all he does is sit on the couch and doesnt want to do nothing fun.Do I just deal with it or move on to the next?
2006-07-20 07:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by Purplepassion9126 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you should confront him about the problem to make him aware of it. Guys tend to not pay attention to stuff, thus he may think there is nothing wrong at all.
If you are still ready to part ways after talking, and it is your apartment, simply ask him to leave. If it is his, pack up and leave yourself. If it is yours together, talk to your landlord first.
If you are trying to ease the "hurt", don't make the break up so obvious and abrupt. To live apart doesn't have to mean an end to the relationship, but once you are apart you could then suggest breaking up (sometimes seeing less of each other will allow the possibility of breaking up as not such a bad thing). For the sake of all mankind, just don't say "lets just be friends"!
2006-07-20 08:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by linkus86 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. You give him a date to be out.
2. If you choose you explain why
3. If he isn't out by that date you move his things to the sidewalk and change the locks on the doors.
4. You do not discuss with him any options as you have chosen this.
5. He may end up hurt but more likely mad. Be ready for that.
2006-07-20 08:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him you are unhappy with the situation and you need to make some changes. Is it our apt? Don't you love him anymore? Is it worth the trouble to work out the situation? Kicking him out can't be done without hurting him. You sound rather young. Picking boyfrends isn't like picking out a new pair of shoes. If you break up with him, give yorself some time ALONE to get to know yourself. It really is nice living alone and doing things by yourself once in awhile. Don't rush into finding another one.
2006-07-20 08:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not stay in a relationship that you do not want. There really is no way of telling him that you do not want to be with him without hurting him (if he cares). He is going to be hurt and he might try to talk you out of it. Make sure that when and if you go to him, that you are sure that you want to move on. You do not want to be undecided because then he might get you to change your mind and a few months down the line, you will be writing to us with the same question.
Good luck
2006-07-20 07:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure you do in contrast to her in any respect then. in case you enjoyed her, you will admire the certainty that she's seeing somebody and be a real guy and not intrude. If she's chuffed, and you "like" her such as you declare you do, then "getting rid" of the guy in straightforward terms exhibits which you do no longer look after her in any respect. despite in case you do wreck her cutting-edge courting and he or she finally ends up courting you, who's to declare another guy will no longer see you as a chump and examine out to interrupt you 2 up? how will you sense while she ditches you for some guy who's in straightforward terms behaving the comparable way you probably did initially? If she'll do it to her cutting-edge boyfriend then she'll have not have been given any qualms approximately doing it to you.
2016-10-08 03:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to sit down next to him and talk. If that doesn't work then it sounds as if you are ready to end it. As for getting rid of him without hurting him...well, its gonna hurt...but you've gotta be happy and it doesn't sound as if you are happy. Talk to him...then decide.
2006-07-20 07:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by irishME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one, I have no idea! But in a mean way you can just pack his stuff for him when he comes back he'll find them outside the door with a note that says "It's over"
2006-07-20 07:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day while he is out go and change the locks on the doors so he cant get in that will teach him and maybe he will get the hint you dont want him there anymore Best Of Luck
2006-07-20 08:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him if you dont think its gonna work your either gonna come out pregnant and get stuck w/him or just change your whole life style its up to you and what ur heart says
2006-07-20 07:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to leave the house one day and pack up everything and go!
2006-07-20 07:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by PISC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋