I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now and i just don't really feel the same about her anymore....how can i tell her without hurting her feelings too badly?
2006-07-20 07:53:31 · 11 answers · asked by ajw089 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
always be honest u just be honest about it and tell the truth u kno she will get over it and move on breaking up is all a part of life we all got to go through it till we find the right one and the one we want to be wit for the rest of our lifes so be honest cuz this obviously isnt the one that u want to be wit
2006-07-20 07:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no way you can tell someone that your feelings have changed about them without hurting them. But you can minimize the effect by not prolonging the situation or giving the person the run around. Just meet face to face with the person and explain how you feel now.
2006-07-20 15:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by joebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always keep it real- Say, listen, we're cool, but I dont think this is working out for me.
I know it will hurt her anyway just to be dumped, but you never know, maybe she doesnt feel the same about you either and she's waiting on you to say something. Dont waste each other's time.
2006-07-20 14:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably no way to not hurt her feelings, but honesty (applied with tact) IS the best policy. The more time that goes by, the harder it will be on her. If you tell her the truth, at least she can respect you for your honesty.
2006-07-20 14:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Maybalee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must let her know how you feel. It's not fair to her to let her think you love her. Let her have her life back. There is no way to tell her that you want out without hurting her feelings, but it's worse to lie to her.;
2006-07-20 14:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty......I've been there done that and the best way is to tell her to truth as soon as possiable ..dont hold off the longer you wait the harder it will be...so just sit her down and camly tell her how you feel and just be honest...
2006-07-20 14:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by Babygirl000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to be honest.... tell her that you care about her, but honesly dont see this going anywhere, and you don't feel the same anymore, and you dont want to waste her time.......just be real....
2006-07-20 14:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is into you then you likely can't. It is just part of life that everyone has to deal with. It makes us stronger people.
2006-07-20 14:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by Butkusman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys should have a talk. Explain to her your feelins. It might piss her off but eventually it will start to show.
2006-07-20 14:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered being honest? Tell her exactly how you feel.
2006-07-20 14:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋