i know this guy he is 33 years old and moved to phili to work in a shipyard. we meet at the job, because me company sends guys to work out there. a meet him a week before he left. i told me that when he comes back to PUerto rico i have to take him to dinner. he left on the 4 of july and we talk on the phone some times, we mostly take about 30 min and it is about work. what can we talk about how can i ask him in a nice way what does he thinks about me. should i call him or wait untils he calls me, what should i do . i am a christian and he is not....... my parents are very strick with me (24 yearsold) i cant recive a phone call after 9:30 pm i have a temp job beacuse they dont let me go futher. i dont want to scare him. my last boyfriend was 21/2 years ago. because of them. my boss told me to talk to one of the boss in phili to see if they is a job opening it will be in the same place as the guy but i dont know what to do. i told him last night about the job he said to take it .
2006-07-20 07:35:59 · 24 answers · asked by pooh_lrh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the job, worst case scenario you've at least gotten away from your folks.
And just be direct with the guy and ask him what he thinks about you, does he think about you. Is there any reason for you to think there will be something between you if you move.
He's talking to you regularly on the phone, calling from Philly to Puerto Rico. He ain't just calling for giggles, hon.
2006-07-20 07:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 24 years old and should be thinking for yourself. Don't let your parents run your life.
However, if you move to Phili, you're in for a big surprise. Phili is way different than PR. Getting a place to live and living on your own, can be very costly. If you and this guy are just friends now, be a bit patient and see where the relationship goes. You can't throw away everything you have now, for someone you don't really know. If things don't work out for you, then you will be stuck in Phili all by yourself. Trust me, being alone in a big city like that is not a good thing.
Have the guy come visit you, meet with your parents, and see where it goes from there. After spending time with him, you'll know if it was meant to be or not.
Good luck.
2006-07-20 07:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by elguzano1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm young and maybe what I will say you won't listen. You're now grown up, an adult, it's time for you to be independent, do not let your parents command you, now you can take care of yourself, do what you think you must do and what you want. The man that you like talk with him and be more calm. You must now do your own rules and decisions, your parents have no more right to treat you like a kid. Love the person you like and care, find a job you like and that is searching persons like you. Now you are free to be a mature persons. You mustn't depend anymore so much on your parents.
2006-07-20 07:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by Soso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from your parents if you can. 24 years old and you can't take phone calls after 9:30 or work further away from the house. You need to start living your own life.
2006-07-20 07:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start asking questions about him until either he asks you out or you ask him out. You don't want to stay on the same boring work subject for 30 min. Ask him what his fave color is, fave food, you know basic questions so you can become good friends and hopefully even better. One question though, if you are 24 then wht are your parents still your guardian. You are now a mature adult. Your decisions are your choice!
2006-07-20 07:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by gatechgirl13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 24 and your parents are still strict on you like that. Damn girl move out. You can't recieve a call after 9:30, what the hell is that. It's not like you are 6 years old.
2006-07-20 07:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jamacaray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't know if he really loves u or else so don't take the risk of leaving your family. But if they allow you to work there don't miss the chance. Continue praying and God will do the best for U. Good luck.(Why men have to hide their feelings?!) Besides he wouldn't mind if u didn't take the job unless he loved u.Wait a few days n he would give clues I suppose.
2006-07-20 07:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by pinkturtlebursa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay after the 9:30 phone call deal I would have been gone.
2006-07-20 08:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by K-SOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any decision when taken should be such that it should be of your own (or based on guidance from others).But always remember when you look back both you and your lord should be happy with the decision taken by you. Love will come and go maybe but some decisions once taken are difficult to be reverted
2006-07-20 07:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by questionmark to exclamation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really a Christian, the bible says don't get unequally yolked. YOu will be fighting over how to raise your children. It won't be a wholesome atmosphere, and he won't have the same morals, and ideals or standards as you. YOu are asking for trouble. He is too old for you, Get someone better!
2006-07-20 07:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋