Why do guys have problems saying I LOVE YOU?

Answer 1

they think they won't b cool if they say it.

Answer 2

For women, emotions differ GREATLY. They feel things much more strongly then just about any guy. They can feel love toward more of the general population, then a guy can toward a single person. It mostly depends on the people, and what sort of relationships they have been in.

Answer 3

There are many reasons....
1. He doesnt love you
2. He went out wit you just for sex?
3. Shyness...
4. He stop loving you
5. He probably never loved you and he thought he loved you in the biggining...
6. He just doesnt like saying it.....*maybe not so comfortable sayin out*
7. He started to fancy someone else...
8. Probably he thinks,he doesnt deserve to say, cuz he cheated on you....
9. Maybe he thinks you dont like him anymore...
10. He turned gay..
11. He is cold blooded...??
12. you can ask him.... :)

LoL There are many reasons..... depends....u kno wha i mean...
if your in a serious relationship.... you should ask him to know the real real correct answer





___________Peace_

Answer 4

It is a genetic thing
Having an X chromosome and a Y chromosome, instead of two Y chromosomes means that they can't physically get their tongues around that combination of letters! Just can't do it! Not physically possible, Sorry.
If they try, it sounds so disgusting (like a Wildebeest throwing up after it ate a Lion), that we just never try it!
True!
Honest!
Or my name ain't "Slim Jim the Sexbomb of Littlehampton!"

Answer 5

They don't have a problem saying it when they feel comfortable and it is truly what they feel. I tell a male friend of mine I love him all the time because I do. He doesn't need to respond back I love you too, because it isn't necessary for me to hear it.

Answer 6

Because men and women are wired differently. Men don't express their feelings with words as easily as they do with actions. Assuming that this is someone you are in a relationship with and not somebody just trying to get in your pants you can bet when he does say it it is because he means it. I personally feel its best to let them say it first and in their own time so they don't get freaked out. If he feels it eventually he will say it but don't get too down if he doesn't say it as soon as you start to feel it. Thats just the way they are. Women typically do feel it sooner than men do however if its meant to be he will come around. Just be patient.

Answer 7

Many overuse those words to get into ladies pants. Those words should be spoken only when there is a sincere feeling of love and affection for another person.

Answer 8

most of the time it isn't because we find it hard to say (although some men clearly do), its because women tend to need to hear it more often than we feel the need to say it,,,,,,,,,this leads to women trying to coax us into saying it, often by either say it to us and awaiting us to say it back or simply asking "do you love me".
This can make us feel pressured into saying it which will have a negative affect on our mood and make us less inclined to say it.

Also every time we say it the 'need' to say it gets reset to zero, so the spontaneous "i love you" can be quite rare in some relationships.
Personally, I tell my girlfriend several times a day, but a majority of those are to keep her feeling secure rather than me wanting to express my affection.

It seems to me that its a consequence of how our brain wiring evolved,,,,,,,,,men are stimulated by sight and action because we had to be fit and visually aware of pontential predators and prey, Our function was to supply meat to the women and children and protect the community...........women spent their time in the community where communication (both verbal (talking) and non verbal (touching,facial expressions etc)) was more important. Their function was to ensure the continued smooth running of the community, raise the children and prepare the food.

the upshot of this is that women like us to show our affection by telling them nice things, giving them presents (representing the successful hunt), kissing and cuddling,,,,,,,,men on the other hand would rather you showed your love for us by looking good, cooking us a nice meal and doing something extra in the bedroom.

the problem is we both SHOW our affections in the way we would like to RECIEVE it

Answer 9

I don't. most guys don't mean it. I do. I unlike every other guy on tthe face of the earthdon't think when do I get to do her. I actually treat ladies the way they should be treated, with respect and like princesses. I am not rude like other guys.

Answer 10

well love is a really strong word used only when strong feelings are evident

why force us to save i love you if we really dont?

most of us for example would have no problem saying "i like you," but then you (girls) wouldnt want to hear that, now would you?

Answer 11

i personally dont struggle with it, i have no problem telling my girlfriend i love her.

but other guys probaby the fear of being seen as a softy, or a "p*ssy" as there friends might call them.