i have a son w/ my ex whom im still in love with. we broke up because of lies and drugs,he also couldnt keep a job..i started seeing this new guy (of 2 years now) while we were still together.. i have now moved from a trailer w/no car (w/ex)...to shareing a new home and haveing my own car (w/new guy)..it was all about provideing the best for my child .i still miss my ex and want him back..i belive he can change if i give him the chance..do i go for the love or the money?..my ex and i were so in love and i know this new guy will never fill that need....do i really need to be in love to be happy or can i just settle for comfort and stability
2006-07-20 07:29:19 · 2 answers · asked by SHONI L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont want to answer and mislead you bc thats a big decision you have to make so take this as an opinion only..... how have you been with this new guy for two years and not love him.... I was thinking oh my God this guy sounds great.... youre happy and well taken care of I know that if you get over the old guy you could find it in your heart to love the new one... Why settle for less you or your child shouldnt have to... Dont you think youve given him a good enough chance already... Its the new guy turn now...... give it some thought and God Bless......
2006-07-20 07:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can flip a coin or see witch one is bigger
2006-07-22 14:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by edward b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋