I am forever complaining that i dont have a bf. But everytime someone asks me out or asks 4 my number i pretend like i dont hear them or start laughing. I try not 2b so shy but i cant help it. I want a boyfriend so badly right now but i dont know how 2 talk 2 a guy without laughing every 5 seconds or shaking.
2006-07-20 07:21:02 · 4 answers · asked by Dancin♥Qu33n 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself and relax. I used to be the same way. Just think about it - it is just a guy. I bet they feel nervous about talking to you too. When you be yourself without trying to act a certain way, the guys will love you.
2006-07-20 07:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Virginia Gal 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you are somebody else and chat people up. Make bets with your friends about who will talk to a hot random guy that the group picks out. Find a hobby that allows you to talk to people, carry a digital camera and tell guys you are a photographer and you like to take real life photos of hot dudes and would they pose for a picture. Guys are so vain they'd do it in a club and anywhere else for that matter. I was born shy and worked for years to get out of it. But it takes work.
2006-07-20 14:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mitch K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your afraid of rejection, just remember EVERYONE fears something. realize that, and it will help you to connect. When you are looking at the other person, ask yourself what is he afraid of. Talking to people, being told no, not sure if they have a certain look? Everyone fears something, know your fear and come to terms with it.
2006-07-20 14:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone, it's nothing. When someone loves you, it's somthing. When u luv someone & they luv you back, it's everything.
2006-07-20 14:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ashish M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋