we knew each other for months before we made out, and he seemed really into me. in the past week since then he says that since a lot of his friends are leaving town this week and he's been busy hanging out with them/sort of depressed about it. i'm used to being in touch a lot, and now i'm getting the feeling that this might be a "he's just not that into you" moment. am i being paranoid, and what should i do? i've sent casual text messages and they are eventually (briefly) returned... but i can't help feeling rejected since we only made out once before this happened.
2006-07-20 07:11:47 · 14 answers · asked by Carly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go POOF....don't text, don't call. If you don't hear from him....NEXT!
2006-07-20 07:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by cautionim 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Its called booty call!!He played you.Men will say and do anything to get in a girls pants ohh they will promise the moon and stars and love you to pieces ,hang on everyword you say until you give it up then its over your history to them and they move on to the next victim he was nothing but a typical player!!Best for u to move on and find someone else because he is.
2006-07-20 14:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when 2 people have sex it usually implies there is to be more of a relationship, even when it has been agreed that it is for the sexual experience only, there is usually a feeling of indebtedness. he may think you are expecting a ring or something. sport phucking is rarely that. it usually means more to one participent than the other.
2006-07-20 14:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's confused on where to go from here. There is a reason why he's backing away, but you'll never find out until you ask.
2006-07-20 14:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself up about it,but just learn from it.
You are special no matter what the knuckle heads may say.
Remember don't give it up because that's just what boy's want to do,is get it and leave.
DON'T GIVE YOUR SELF TO NOBODY ELSE.............
hey I'm old school...you should wait to give it all to your husband.
2006-07-20 14:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by tomio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone. Sometimes that is what a guy wants. He probably figures, hey, I want to nail her, and when I get it, then I would leave her alone. Sometimes you really have to make them chase it and play hardball. Good luck!
2006-07-20 14:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by bicheeeened30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he got what he wanted and now he is done. He is not man enough (obviously immature) to tell you he is not interested so he is hoping you go away. Stop contacting him and he will nto contact you I promise. Don't embarass yourself any further.
2006-07-20 14:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"made out"....does this translate to sexual intercourse? Bceause "making out" in my day did not. However...if it does..heh heh...you've been had sweetie. Gave it up for nothing. Sorry....I hope you didn't but it's a tough lesson to learn. Ladies...don't be so free in giving out your "favors". Not every man woill appreciate it.
2006-07-20 14:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to be with you, he'd be with you. I think he's pulling away and you need to find out why, then go from there. Best wishes
2006-07-20 14:14:22 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
staright up ask him. if he doesn't like you he'll admit it. why would he want to be with someone he doesn't like.
if he says he still likes you obviously he still likes you. hopefully you guys can open up and solve the problem from there.
2006-07-20 14:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by keet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is normal, I am sorry I believe he is rejected you. Go on!! It is his loss.
2006-07-20 14:15:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋