when me and my girl have sex it's like i love it the most when she gets a orgasim but once in a blue moon she wants me to get mines and i dont like it as much. is this normal for a guy? and is it got to do with the mood shes in?
2006-07-20 07:08:29 · 9 answers · asked by j g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it may lie in the fact that you don't even know how to spell it.
orgasim?
i think you meant orgasm
2006-07-20 07:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Nia24 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most guys I've been with preferred to get me off before they did...some kind of satisfaction that after they've taken care of the woman "their job is done" and they can focus on themselves then...
There's no reason you should enjoy your orgasm less because you get it before she gets hers...that's purely psychological, but I imagine she's just trying to be fair and let you get yours first once in a while...
What does it really matter who O's first, or if they even O at all, if they are having a good time?
2006-07-20 14:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you like her to orgasm more than your own...... you are a special guy and she is very lucky to have you, cause most guys could care less about a girls orgasm. Btw where are you from I would like to meet you !!!! haha j/k
2006-07-20 14:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it always has something to do with the mood she is in.
2006-07-20 14:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls feel good when the guy gets his, sometimes it helps her get hers if the guy gets his.
2006-07-20 14:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a little confused but trying anyway. i assume you mean that sometimes she wants you to have an orgasm without her having one. i do that sometimes to my bf because it makes me feel good to just give to him, without my complete satisfaction.
2006-07-20 14:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is give and take. balance. yin yang.
but as a seprate thought: would you be embarased/proud/rethink it if God were looking? FYI: HE IS!!!!!
2006-07-20 14:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOps! oh boy!
2006-07-20 14:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by do you smell..... what's coo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oops...i'm not a lady...my bad
2006-07-20 14:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋