i know this guy he is 33 years old and moved to phili to work in a shipyard. we meet at the job, because me company sends guys to work out there. a meet him a week before he left. i told me that when he comes back to PUerto rico i have to take him to dinner. he left on the 4 of july and we talk on the phone some times, we mostly take about 30 min and it is about work. what can we talk about how can i ask him in a nice way what does he thinks about me. should i call him or wait untils he calls me, what should i do . i am a christian and he is not....... my parents are very strick with me (24 yearsold) i cant recive a phone call after 9:30 pm i have a temp job beacuse they dont let me go futher. i dont want to scare him. my last boyfriend was 21/2 years ago. because of them. my boss told me to talk to one of the boss in phili to see if they is a job opening it will be in the same place as the guy but i dont know what to do. i told him last night about the job he said to take it .
2006-07-20 07:05:16 · 6 answers · asked by pooh_lrh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
definitely a tough situation... you are too old to be stuck under your parents' thumb like that. however, i don't think you should move *JUST* for this guy. if he is part of your plan to get some more experience, and learn more about relationships, new people, etc, that is wonderful. but don't pick up and move your life ONLY for this person... you don't know him very well, and you don't want to give him too much power over what you do and where u go, etc.
that being said, this could be a good opportunity for you to learn how to live on your own, move out, and hopefully make new friends. since u do have a connection to someone in Philly, that is very helpful when u move somewhere new. just make sure that u are strong, confident woman who doesn't allow someone else to make ur decisions for you (including ur parents, and including this guy or any new one u meet). think of it as a growth and development of your life, not as "should i move to be w/ this new guy"... because already u are giving him that hold over what ur life is about. make sure u have a firm grasp of what you WANT in your life, and if it's moving away from ur parents, that's a first step. also, if u are transferring w/in your company that is awesome cuz u are guaranteed a place to work, and people you have to meet and fraternize and get along with, hopefully making new friends along the way. :) take care, and good luck.
2006-07-20 07:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pray about the decision to move away to be near a non believer --- if I were you I'd only move because the job fits what I'm looking for ---ask yourself what happens if the "relationship" ends --- would you be moving there for him or is this a career decision....
2006-07-20 14:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it you aren't getting any where with your parents leash it's time to grow and expand yourself you are 24 years old. Go for it! If your parents want what's best for you they will understand. Good Luck
2006-07-20 14:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by boredgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your parents your a grown women. Don't let them run your life like this, Just pack and go they can't stop you, don't let them. It's not like your 16 right? Do what you want. You like this guy, there's a job opening. Go for it.
2006-07-20 14:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel. it couldn't hurt anything. it would probably make things a little better for the both of you if you knew how one another felt. i wish you well. follow your heart. good luck
2006-07-20 14:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rene P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!!
2006-07-20 14:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋