Want her to move in with me, but don't want to freak her out. After how many months of dating should I wait? (I'm 28, she's 25).
2006-07-20 07:03:33 · 9 answers · asked by Boomer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how comfortable you'd both be with each other. If you think you're both ready and could handle living together, then just ask her about how she feels. Communication is the key, right? If you're both really close, then I don't think she'd have much of a problem moving in with you.
2006-07-20 07:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no magic number...when you both feel comfortable with the idea...I'd think a year or so would be reasonable, and if you've stayed together that long (and are doing well) then your relationship should be solid enough to take it to the next level...
If you make that kind of move too quickly, before you know each other as well as you could, and things fall apart, then it's a big mess with someone moving out, having to find another place to live, etc...wait until the relationship is past the "new" stage and things are feeling pretty solid...
2006-07-20 14:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a good time when you both feel comfortable i see you d, but maybe bring it up in a conversation and see what happens talk about how you see your future with her if you want a future with her
2006-07-20 14:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go the easy route, and stick your head in the oven, and turn on the gas. This will save time, money, and anguish for all involved.
2006-07-20 14:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats all up to you. ask her that if she ever feels like moving in at some stage of yr relationship. then youll know if she would like to one day or not. dont just spring it on her.
2006-07-20 14:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait at least a year just too make sure ye are both really ready too live together
2006-07-20 14:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by starrygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no time if both of yall are feeling each other that much than she will always be over at your house anyway, then you ask her the question
2006-07-20 14:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by donnellharrison218 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are ready to ask, and you asking that q on here, it seems oyu are. Good luck and kiss your freedom good bye
2006-07-20 14:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Kalahari_Surfer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never cause u will loose ur freedom
2006-07-20 14:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by jaychazus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋