and risk everything or keep my mouth shut??????
2006-07-20 06:17:48 · 12 answers · asked by Bobby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would build up to that. Before you say you like someone, you should put out feelers. If she says something really smart, say, "I really like smart girls like you." If she wears a certain shirt often, say, "You always look very pretty in that shirt." And if she's having a bad day, you can tell her, "Whenever you're upset, I just want to do whatever I can for you to be happy." You want to say beautful things, without being sappy or fake. She's going to know that you're a good friend and that you care. I would also take the time to look directly into her eyes when your talking to her, for about 30 secs at a time. Brush your hands lightly against her hand when your inconversation. This will build a sense of attachment. Then when she becomes more comfortable, you can say whatever you'd like.
2006-07-20 06:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha 4 · 29⤊ 4⤋
yes you should tell her how you feel, if she cant handle it then shes not worth it. Giving your heart is always worth the risk, there are no guarantees that you wont get hurt. i would prefer that than never saying anything and then years later you find out she felt the same but your with someone else. all you can do is hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
2006-07-20 13:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by lorimtx2204 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really risk anything but rejection...and if you keep your mouth shut, you'll never know what coulda been, so I'd say go for it.
2006-07-20 13:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of risks. Sometimes you have to take the risk.
2006-07-20 13:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you care about her, but don't go too over the top. i think you should always tell people what you feel. if you break up, you're going to wonder if you should have told her. what would happen if you did? tell her.
2006-07-20 13:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetie Pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the risk, if u dont then u might regret not telling her later
2006-07-20 13:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way: Which hurts more? Regretting what you have said or torturing yourself about what you could have.
2006-07-20 13:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really do care about her then its always good to let it out, and if you know she cares about you, thats best. good luck.
2006-07-20 13:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know you like her, but don't make yourself too vulnerable.
2006-07-20 13:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure
2006-07-20 13:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋