I'm nice-looking, but about 15-20lbs. overweight and the girls I'm running around with look FINE. Does this make me look more like porky pig, or am I too self-conscious?
2006-07-20 06:15:27 · 37 answers · asked by Jenintn 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 33, and have had 2 babies in the last 2 years!
2006-07-20 06:43:44 · update #1
Every one is missing the whole point here.
So I will spell it out for you.
If you go out eat.Do you order a steak or just the bone.??
Well you want the meatest steak you can get.......RIGHT..
So yes they are keeping you around so they can show off there bones.
and then the real guys will come to you for the steak...
I am talking for the guys here....The skinny chicks are nice to look at and that is about where it ends...They are high maint. and very stuck on them selfs....
I prefer a girl (lady) with some meat on them bones....The bonie look is not attractive or pretty to look at...
And you can keep this thought in your mind..The skinny things when they are ready to have kids will wonder why it is so hard to conceive and to carry...
It is because they have taught there bodies to be thin at all costs...Even at the cost of there own health..
ladies are the bringer of life....You will give life to a child and bring that child into this world with your body and what is stored in it.....Do you think the skin and bone look will help to ensure a healthy baby....I THINK NOT..
Just relax and enjoy you as you
Just remember babe...You are the meat for there skin and bones...
Be the meat and be happy......
2006-07-20 06:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by tanear1964 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it does make you look bigger if you're around a bunch of skinny heifers (LOL). But you are not invisible around them either and you may come across a guy who isn't into skinny women who likes real women with some meat on their bones and some junk in the trunk! ;-)
Don't worry about it. You sound young, so get out there and enjoy yourself! Don't be concerned about the shape of your body unless you gain too much weight and it becomes a health issue. If it bothers you that much, start working out on an elliptical trainer, a bike and with free weights. Or just walk for an hour or an hour and a half a day. That will take the weight off. And watch what you eat and drink...sodas and chips and burgers are not helping you.
Read tanear1964's answer...I like the way he puts it. And he's right! And check out silent_peace's answer. It puts things in perspective.
2006-07-20 06:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Creole Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
porky is a pig and lives on a farm pig is an animal your really being to hard on yourself i have never heard any one compare themselves to porky! Sad if you feel this way then try to manage your weight but size of a person or a pig for that matter has nothing to do with those skinny friends if they like you the way you are then i would not worry about it just lose weight for your health not to,just blend together in a crowd think of your self before others!
2006-07-20 06:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by BIKERBABE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too insecure... and obviously harboring some issues about your weight. Why else would you call your friends "skinny b!tches"?? Just because they are thin does not mean they are any better or worse than you. Unless they are putting you down (in which case you need to find new friends), you should start looking to yourself to solve your insecurity problems.
Also, 15-20 pounds overweight can mean a lot of things, but be careful. There are a lot of health implications that someone you age has a chance to avoid if you start living a healthier lifestyle.
2006-07-20 06:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kristina S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visually, you may appear a bit heavier than you are, just because of the perspective represented with you near women who are thinner than you...however 20 lbs isn't a huge amount overweight so I doubt you look like a mammoth, even if you were standing next to someone anorexic.
If you want to be a skinny ***** with a perfect body, then get busy and make it so...no need to degrade those that look that way because they are...
Let your personality shine...self confidence and positive self esteem are very appealing...that'll outshine a pretty figure any day...people might look at a gorgeous figure, but they're going to want to be around the people who exude confidence and positive energy, no matter what they look like...
2006-07-20 06:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, there are more important things in this world to worry about, and i'm sure that you have more important issues that are more deserving of your attention than this is. you are being too self conscious and you don't even need to be. and keep in mind, the next time you wanna worry about that, especially when you are around skinny chicks, remember these 2 things, 1) skinny women are EVIL (LOL!), and 2) if you give a dog a BONE, he will bury it...if you give him a STEAK, he will eat it! i say that to say this...there are those that will prefer the same lil 15-20 pounds you stressin over! chill, relax, and let them enjoy the meat!
2006-07-20 06:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by queenreignsupreem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry. Many a man likes the plus sized woman. 15 -20 pounds isn't really that much. It just means there's more to love. Besides a woman should have curves and skinny ain't curvy. If you eat right and get a little exercise you can shed extra weight but leave a little softness and be kind to yourself.
2006-07-20 06:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by iamhermansen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define chunky! God made everyone different that's what makes us so unique if everyone looked alike (same complexion,body type,hair/eye color, ect.) this world would be one dull place to live in and eventually you would get sick of looking at your own reflexion in the mirror since the guy or gal next to you looked the same. Be happy with your body and if your friends make your size an issue, FIND NEW FRIENDS!!!! Curvy is in and rail thin is out! SAY IT LOUD "I'm Thick And I'm Proud"
2006-07-20 06:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by milkchclt4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what you wear. If you are not a skinny-mini then don't try to wear that. I see a lot of girls that if they wore something that fit them better they would look great but they try to stay with their friends or crowd and squeeze into the clothes. You don't sound like a porker to me. Just be selective on what you buy or wear. There are clothing lines out there that will compliment your body greatly. FYI I'm not a skinny-mini.
2006-07-20 06:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on where those 15 to 20 lbs are. Don't underestimate those skinny chicks she's your friend to promote herself. If you got some Booty a lil belly I'll talk to you. But I can't do back fat, and shoulder fat and Popeye the sailor man arms, ....thats not cool
2006-07-20 06:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋