On Tues I stoped by my bf's house and I asked him if he wants to come over later and he said I'll get back to u on that he said that twice on Tues.
2006-07-20 06:13:36 · 19 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...you know what personally I would call him back to see what the deal was. You know what also ask him straight up if something is bothering him or try to understand why he is saying that. It also depends on your relationship :emotionally and if its opened to any questions. Do you smother him too much, are you always on his case. Just ask it doesn't hurt.
2006-07-20 06:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by girly_gurl1 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no self resprecting girl throws herself at a boy believe me, ive learned the hard way. Dont call him and when he does, ignore
the 1st call then call
him back but dont ***** about the ditching you thing. be vaugue and oblivious...for a while. See, dating is always about power.
theres a power struggle, and the goal is to keep it at 50/50
if you have all the power its great but you will get bored, and "doormats" are so 1985. gross, however if he has all the power he can just dump you when ever he wants and you'll look like a fool. So, ignore him and start flirting around in the meantime.its fun and it'll make him think twice.
good luck
2006-07-20 06:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then the ball is in his court. Don't chase him, he knows you want to see him so he'll let you know if he wants to see you. He's not very considerate though, so next time you do talk to him let him know you don't appreciate being left hanging...you might have wanted to make other plans, or turned down some other offer, waiting for him to "get back with you on that".
In the future, if he doesn't give you a firm answer, then make other plans (if you desire) to do something else...don't block time out sitting around waiting to hear from anyone who can't make up their mind or are hoping for a better offer, or just don't want to be honest an come out and say they already have other plans...
Good luck...
2006-07-20 06:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, never, never call a man. Unless he called and left you a voice message. He should never know what your up to, because it's mysterious, and it keeps you in control. The less you do for a guy, the more he's going to want you.
2006-07-20 06:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That kind of impersonal response sounds like he's not treating you very well. Find someone who's at least more polite, preferably also responsible and caring. Don't waste time, energy, and Yahoo Answers points on someone who doesn't value you.
2006-07-20 06:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by byama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you to call. However, you might want to find out if he wants to continue in the relationship.
2006-07-20 06:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that seems kind of weird that he has not called you. I know if I don't see my boyfriend..well even if i do or do not we still call each other to let each other know how the other one is doing..you should call him maybe something is wrong
2006-07-20 06:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by demilochic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your boyfriend, right, not just a date...?
Stop trying to reach him, just ignore him for awhile and give him a chance to 'get back at you'.
Then if/when you're together again, casually find out what he's been up to. (Sounds fishy to me!)
2006-07-20 06:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by wishinghoping24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him,let him call you.Did you know that people only run when they are being chased? Let him do the chasing--you stop running after him...
2006-07-20 06:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and see if he fulfills his promise, if not then dump him and go find yourself a new and faithful bf.
2006-07-20 06:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋