we broke up because she met this guy about a month ago and they began to have feelings for eachother and she told me that she missed him. she had cheated on me before in the relationship but i took her back because she means everything to me and i couldnt imagine being without her but i can not tolerate the way she treats me anymore. so im confused about what i should do next i want to be with her forever because shes amazing but i cant have her cheat on me either what should i do?
2006-07-20 06:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by exposfan1016 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being dumped is not nice, but it's a fact of life. Virtually everyone gets dumped at some stage, and whilst it hurts, it is a normal part of growing up.
If you are dumped, then first try to understand why you were dumped - did you do anything "wrong" that you can learn to correct, or was it one of those 'drifting apart' things.
The key is not to feel bad about yourself - tell yourself it is their loss not yours and you are a great person.
Try not to let your confidence get knocked. Continue doing all your other activities as before that did not involve that person and stay busy.
Do not be tempted to pine for them or try to get them to change their mind. Use your energy in a positive way to get on with your life.
Hope this helps~ Contact me if you need anything else~
2006-07-22 03:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Bon Bon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do loook on the bright side. Breaking up is the start of a new road. The most important thing about love is that the other party is happy. so y not u start ur life again who knows the next time round all of us might be seeing u asking question on how to go about proposing to another person. Don think too much no good for health
2006-07-20 13:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Headache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone forever, who has betrayed you more than once? Take a step back and realize you're not in love with her (she's not a good person), but you're in love with the idea of being in love...
Spend time with friends...take up a hobby...do things to distract you for a while until you start to feel better...realize that no one deserves to be cheated on, and you deserve better than someone who would treat you so cruelly and disrespectfully.
There are many women out there better suited to you. Take some time to get over this relationship, ground yourself again, and get to enjoying life as a single person...before you know it, you'll look up one day and there'll be someone amazing. *smiles*
Good luck!
2006-07-20 13:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must take all possible steps to forget her. You can get involved in better things. betrayal in love is really painful. But this will really help you to understand life better. you deserve something still better. remember there is nothing more important than your self respect. If you allow her to treat you badly, you will loose that too. I know it is easy to tell but difficult to do but you keep faith in god. He knows the best for you. you must not love a girl because she is beautiful, amazing, whatever that is. the most important is that she respects you and loves you.
2006-07-20 13:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by devisharvani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear if she cheated on u before.
It doesn't mean she will not do it again.
Once that seens of trust is gone.
It's hard to trust again.
This doesn't seem like the right person for u.
Look for someone who will appreciate u
and can respect u.
2006-07-20 13:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it one day at a time. if she loves you as much as you love her she will realize it and come back. try and be strong and do things to take your mind off of it.
2006-07-20 13:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Celebrate!!! ...And Move on!
I'm just angry she might've messed up a good guy.
2006-07-20 13:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by AfroSistah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy ur life...you are better off without her..i promise
2006-07-20 13:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by Illy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXX celebrate XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-20 13:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋